FriendlyShadow
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Like , if a girl has short hair or chubby/overweight, or if a guy had long hair or if he had glasses. I mean, I'm sure not all people judge others by their appearance, but it's like some people in the world would rather have a good looking person as a mate. I mean, for example some boys would rather choose a girl with long hair over short hair because it shows feminism and that short hair makes a girl look like a guy. I really don't think that's fair because that person can't help what they look like and what if she really can't grow long hair because of health problems or something. Now, I'll admit that I used to judge people by their appearance when I was young, but now that I'm 15, I can learn to look past their physical appearance and appreciate their personality. The only time I judge appearances, is if I rant about my own appearance. Some actors that I like(even a few of them, sadly, don't get much recognition for their acting ability), well even though they aren't the hottest people to walk on earth, I still like their acting in shows/movies and how they act off set. I'm not saying that all good looking people aren't nice, because I'm sure some are. Even famous actors like Elijah Wood or Johnny Depp are good looking to people(and I'll admit they are), but to me it's more than just the physical appearance I focus on, rather then their acting abilities(which the two actors I mention do a good job of portraying characters, IMO) and how they act in interviews/off set/ or how they get along with other actors/directors. I just don't understand why the world is so shallow today. Probably some of you are going to say I'm going to have to deal with it, but I just can't stand how our society wants us to believe in. If I ever date a boyfriend or heck, even a girlfrend in the future(I doubt it'll happen because I have multiple problems of my own like, for example, one of the biggest ones is my dyspraxia, I don't know if some of you know what the condition means but), I wouldn't care what he/she looked like or if he/she was stuck in a wheelchair or is a "too nice" quiet, kind of guy/girl or any of that stuff. It's like nowadays, (again not all people but certain types of people these days) only go for money, judge others for what they look like, popularity, ect. Girls(not all girls) who want a strong, hot looking, rich, man and Boys(not all boys either) who want a, girl with big eyes(and I know this because some websites have said that boys like girls with big eyes because it makes them look innocent. -_-) long hair, girly, skinny ect. That's another thing I don't get. Boys(not all) who choose Girly girls over Tomboys because they are feminime. Even boys or girls(not all) try to change their partner's apperance and for who they are.That's a sign of controlling isn't it? My sister, who is girly, questions why I dress in so called "ugly tomboy guy clothes" and even buys girly things that I don't care for(and yes, I've explained to her why i didn't want to dress girly because I'm not like that but then she said something like"Well if you went out with your girl friends to go shopping wouldn't you pick out girly clothes. I'm surprised she thought I had girl friends because the truth is I don't have any.) , even one of her friends agreed with her and said I was going to change my mind as I get older. Well, sorry for the long post, just something that has been bugging me.
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