Do you think you're ugly?
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Pink_Paula
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That's really good that you have found a happy medium and can see some of your good points, you are a beautiful girl and you should be happy with yourself
lyricalliaisons
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I don't think I'm ugly at all. I like the way I look, except I need to lose weight. After I lose the weight again, I'll really have no problem at all with the way I look. My anxiety has nothing to do with my looks.
therealone
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Yes. I keep thinking that if I could change the way I look and not be ugly then I could get over my social phobia no problem. I've felt this way since I was a kid.
Unfortunately, I don't have the money to fix my imperfections.
Unfortunately, I don't have the money to fix my imperfections.
Pink_Paula
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I've always had a problem with how i look, from my weight to my face, i don't like what i see!
teandtoast
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same here re the acne scars does my head in ...I had totally clear skin up until I was 20 and then had this horrible acne which I messed about with all time and has left these horrid scars which everytime I look in the mirror makes me cringe (Im 25 now and has only really startin to clear)
also my nose is pretty big and made worse when I was assaulted/punched in face in a street robbery 2 years ago and left with a broken nose and bump now on my nose :/ ...looking to get a nose job at end of year though lol
but yeh I dont like way I look and feel pretty ugly
cant stand people looking at me direct in the face
Rxqueen
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Yea I've always felt pretty ugly....from weight gain to acne scars and just overall bad self esteem. I've always had a weight problem and I go from losing weight to gaining it back all the time and I have pretty bad acne scars too. I cover up the scars with lots of makeup and whenever I don't have any on I feel like a freak. I'm at the stage where I know I can change myself, but even at my best I'm really only average. I wish I could have surgery to fix some things......but that requires money and I'm pretty sure I'd take it too far and end up looking like Micheal Jackson......may he rest in peace...::
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dooby-duck
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It depends on my mood really. Sometimes I look in the mirror and quite like what I see, other times I don't think I look human. It's the same when I see most other people they all (mostly) look "normal". I think we see ourselves a bit differently to how we see others.
teandtoast
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Yea I've always felt pretty ugly....from weight gain to acne scars and just overall bad self esteem. I've always had a weight problem and I go from losing weight to gaining it back all the time and I have pretty bad acne scars too. I cover up the scars with lots of makeup and whenever I don't have any on I feel like a freak. I'm at the stage where I know I can change myself, but even at my best I'm really only average. I wish I could have surgery to fix some things......but that requires money and I'm pretty sure I'd take it too far and end up looking like Micheal Jackson......may he rest in peace...:
I wish I could wear makeup to cover my acne scars lol (but being a bloke would look a bit funny
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lyricalliaisons
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I always feel bad when I read people's comments on threads like this because I've seen pictures of most of them & they're all attractive people. I've never seen a person on this site who I'd consider to be unattractive, yet everyone seems to think they are. It's so sad & I wish I could make everyone feel better about themselves, but it's impossible. If someone thinks they're ugly, no amount of me or others telling them they're not is going to change that ::
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Uber Schnitzel
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I always feel bad when I read people's comments on threads like this because I've seen pictures of most of them & they're all attractive people. I've never seen a person on this site who I'd consider to be unattractive, yet everyone seems to think they are. It's so sad & I wish I could make everyone feel better about themselves, but it's impossible. If someone thinks they're ugly, no amount of me or others telling them they're not is going to change that :
It's true. The girls are drop dead gorgeous on here. If SPW was a real town, I'd have walked into several lamp-posts by now.
Yeah, I do.
mrb
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I wouldn't call myself naturally ugly, but I do perceive myself as rather ugly in my current state. I don't really bother to care about my appearance, and I'm somewhat overweight too.
I guess I could look much better if I put some effort into it, but I can't really find a reason to, since everything seems so pointless thanks to my lack of social life.
I guess I could look much better if I put some effort into it, but I can't really find a reason to, since everything seems so pointless thanks to my lack of social life.
userfriendly
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I know I'm ugly. It just adds to my anxiety. I don't try to better myself either with exercise for example. I see no reason to since I'm going to be alone forever.