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Do you think you're ugly?

Started by Argamemnon · May 21, 2009 · 586 replies

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I did a lot when I was younger because of teasing. Now I just feel plain looking, which is a step up from before so I'm happy with plain.
#182 Report
even ugly girls escapes their eyes from me. so i must be very very ugly
#183 Report
If I could get plastic surgery on my nose, then I would be ok. Unfortunately I don't have the money for it, nor do I live in a town with a plastic surgeon.:🙁:
#184 Report
I don't think i'm ugly, don't actually care if ppl find me ugly cause i don't, but my personality on the other end ....
#185 Report
I don't necessarily think I'm ugly, but I also don't think I'm beautiful. I think I'm somewhere in between (average). I never look in the mirror and think wow I look great. On some very rare days I will look in the mirror and think I look okay but most days I look in the mirror and think why do I even bother. I don't like having my picture taken because I never like the outcome.
#186 Report
Yes I am to ugly and odd looking to have a girlfriend or even friends for that matter,each day that passes this proves true and true again.
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LOL I just shaved most of my hair off, now I REALLY look like a half-assed male to female transsexual. No wonder I have never had a boyfriend 😀

So yes, I am ugly. Sometimes it makes me feel suicidal. But other times (more and more the older I get) I also enjoy it. Somehow I have always responded in being an outcast by making myself look a bit weird. When I was younger I dressed in black, long leather jackets, shaved off my eyebrows, the kind of pseudo-goth look. You could say it was like a shield. And still is.
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#189 Report
I'm as hideous as the Elephant man...
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iamthenra said: ↑
I'm as hideous as the Elephant man...

Joseph Merrick was a beautiful human being

that was a low blow man
#191 Report
I don't much care to be honest. There are plenty of people who may not look much but just eminates coolness wherever they go. So as long as I can look in the mirror and say "yeah okay" I'm set.
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kuhtreen said: ↑
I don't really think I'm ugly. But some days when I'm feeling bad about myself, I look in the mirror and seriously think I'm hideous.
So I guess it changes depending on my mood.

I am very much the same way.
#193 Report
Big time. Im the ugliest person I know
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persona said: ↑
I'm not going to lie about what comes to dating tho. Ugly people CAN be left alone, I know that. But it's also possible for us uglies to hook up with each others. But could you love (and lust) ugly person? That's the real problem here. I'm not sure if I could. All my crushes have been hot/average :🙁: I'm not proud of it.

Yeah I do believe it to be possible for a person to lust after someone they find ugly. But I think that only applies to men, because I known guys to lust after anyone. If guys can bring themselves to have sex with a bed mattress, I'm pretty sure any woman would be a step up. I'm not saying I do this though, I've just heard of it lol.
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jneal25 said: ↑
I'm not saying I do this though, I've just heard of it lol.

Way to make yourself look guilty man 😀
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Danfalc said: ↑
Way to make yourself look guilty man 😀

Haha. That made me think when he said that.
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I feel really ugly, when I walk on the street I always feel like people are looking at me like, ''wow she's weird and ugly'' , they look with a weird face at me. :🙁:
My mom says they are looking because i'm pretty but I just can't believe it.
And if I'm not ugly, I do ''make'' myself ugly because I always show a weak attitude. I don't have a confident body language.
People can see that i'm anxious, and that blows my cover.
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Danfalc said: ↑
Way to make yourself look guilty man 😀

LOL, like I said on April Fools day, I'm the only person who can fall for his own prank. x_x
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Saskia said: ↑
I feel really ugly, when I walk on the street I always feel like people are looking at me like, ''wow she's weird and ugly'' , they look with a weird face at me. :🙁:
My mom says they are looking because i'm pretty but I just can't believe it.
And if I'm not ugly, I do ''make'' myself ugly because I always show a weak attitude. I don't have a confident body language.
People can see that i'm anxious, and that blows my cover.


That is probably my case... except the mom part. I don't even think I have one anymore (the kind that cares, not the one that gives birth)
#200 Report
Most everyone will tell you that they think they're ugly, it's quite sad actually. There was a point when I had the lowest opinion about myself, my SA was severe and I could barely function. It started as just being merely nervous, wondering what others thought about me or how I looked, then progressed into my friends to the point where I would be sitting with them and literally being having a panic attack. In my head, I gave myself the mental image I thought I looked like...I've got a HORRIBLE opinion about myself and it showed. I had no confidence in myself, my eyes were always down, slouched, hands in lap at all time like a submissive dog. That's how I assumed I looked, like a dog.

But once I started seeing someone, feeling better about myself and talking out how I felt it got so much better. I don't think I'm a beauty in the least and I don't like complimenting myself because it seems very vain and conceited but I certainly don't think I'm ugly. Maybe bordering on pretty and that's enough for me 🙂

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