Do you or do you not want kids?

[RoomBound]

Nope. I don't even like the fact that I'm in existence, so I'm not going to perpetuate the cycle. Plus I value my alone time and don't like a lot of noise or people around me.

Your kids will in time not even like saying hello to you and will be annoyed when you're in the same room as them. I couldn't take the constant worry and stress, either. Problems are sure to come up sooner or later. They're cute for awhile, but it's more likely a net negative in your life than a positive.

 

[psych]

No.

I'm always broke. I enjoy beer and occasional smoking... I'm terrified of what it'd do to my figure.(especially at my age ) I'm just way to self involved and poor.
I feel that having children because I'm scared to die alone & be alone is a poor excuse to do it....
I feel that maybe if more people could admit these things, & things like it to themselves... We might all be a bit happier in the long run.

 

[lilymartens]

No. Never. Ever.
I'm 24 now and disliked children for the most part of my life. When I was ca. 4-5 years old I told my parents, that if they had another child, I would move out. I get really frustrated, to say the least, with people who say, that I will change my mind. I won't.

 

[Daniel089]

Well I wouldn't mind kids LATER, because I'd have the chance to ensure them proper education in any ways possible, so a possible SA would NOT develop...
All the fun and happiness in life which I missed in my teenage years - I don't want my kid to miss all that.

 

[Gaucho]

Well I wouldn't mind kids, because I'd have the chance to ensure him proper education in any ways possible, so a possible SA would NOT develop...
All the fun and happiness in life which I missed in my teenage years - I don't want my kid to miss all that.

hey,

its not that easy, i had all the things you stated above and I'm nearly a hopeless case.

me and getting kids? i am scared that my sperma would be a bad sperma and they would be born with a severe disease or disability etc. i don't know why, but scared of that.

 

[Foxface]

Nope.

Kids aren't my thing, Too much respinsiblitiy and looking after them and adds to more money and stuff. Defficult time.

I just want to b with the love of my life/best friend, forever.

 

[w*n*c*a*m]

when i was single, i said i never want to have any kids. I never want to have another version of me. but when I entered a serious relationship, I never dreamt of anything but to give him kids in the future because he badly wants it. Maybe it's more of him liking to have kids which makes me like it too. But I feel a tinge of joy when I imagine myself tending a small version of me and my honey, and them calling us mommy and daddy. So I guess I now like it too.

 

[Hellhound]

Nope, never. Two reasons:

- I can barely take care of myself. I am not very responsible, kids ae a huge responsability, I would never be able to handle that properly. I don't want to bring a kid into this world and be a terrible parent, and then cause them a lot of issues. It'd be cruel.

- I don't like kids.

I am glad my mate doesn't want kids either. I hope he won't change his mind.

 

[MrSunday]

I don't want kids. I hate kids. So disgusting and filthy. I rather give birth to a baby gorilla.

 

[bleach]

funny how every spot on the Internet has these cloisters where mentally ill people can tell each other how smart they are for rejecting normal behavior (in between bouts of suicidal depression)

here's a suggestion, most of you are deeply maladjusted and isolated, perhaps you aren't in good positions to judge the vast majority of people who live their lives differently than you

also if you dislike an entire age group, normal people are going to find that disconcerting with good reason... especially a stage that evryone including yourselves had to go through, and adults have an instinct to protect. you might want to reflect on why you hold such irrational negative thoughts rather than seeking empty validation from the other misfit toys

 

[coyote]

funny how every spot on the Internet has these cloisters where mentally ill people can tell each other how smart they are for rejecting normal behavior (in between bouts of suicidal depression)

here's a suggestion, most of you are deeply maladjusted and isolated, perhaps you aren't in good positions to judge the vast majority of people who live their lives differently than you

also if you dislike an entire age group, normal people are going to find that disconcerting with good reason... especially a stage that evryone including yourselves had to go through, and adults have an instinct to protect. you might want to reflect on why you hold such irrational negative thoughts rather than seeking empty validation from the other misfit toys

you mean this isn't a dating site?

 

[MikeyC]

funny how every spot on the Internet has these cloisters where mentally ill people can tell each other how smart they are for rejecting normal behavior (in between bouts of suicidal depression)

here's a suggestion, most of you are deeply maladjusted and isolated, perhaps you aren't in good positions to judge the vast majority of people who live their lives differently than you

also if you dislike an entire age group, normal people are going to find that disconcerting with good reason... especially a stage that evryone including yourselves had to go through, and adults have an instinct to protect. you might want to reflect on why you hold such irrational negative thoughts rather than seeking empty validation from the other misfit toys

Thank you for making sweeping generalisations of everyone who posted here.

 

[Silatuyok]

funny how every spot on the Internet has these cloisters where mentally ill people can tell each other how smart they are for rejecting normal behavior (in between bouts of suicidal depression)

here's a suggestion, most of you are deeply maladjusted and isolated, perhaps you aren't in good positions to judge the vast majority of people who live their lives differently than you

also if you dislike an entire age group, normal people are going to find that disconcerting with good reason... especially a stage that evryone including yourselves had to go through, and adults have an instinct to protect. you might want to reflect on why you hold such irrational negative thoughts rather than seeking empty validation from the other misfit toys

Wow. Just, wow.

 

[hidwell]

funny how every spot on the Internet has these cloisters where mentally ill people can tell each other how smart they are for rejecting normal behavior (in between bouts of suicidal depression)

here's a suggestion, most of you are deeply maladjusted and isolated, perhaps you aren't in good positions to judge the vast majority of people who live their lives differently than you

also if you dislike an entire age group, normal people are going to find that disconcerting with good reason... especially a stage that evryone including yourselves had to go through, and adults have an instinct to protect. you might want to reflect on why you hold such irrational negative thoughts rather than seeking empty validation from the other misfit toys

Just wondering what you are doing on this site, if you feel so superior to all the other 'misfits' ?

 

[Nathália]

Well Rerrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!! I thought most answers were legitimate reasons even though I have different views. Where is this fire coming from? I really don't appreciate this tone, other people were nice, but I think what you said was a really nasty thing for you to say. You really need to change your attitude because it is not a good way to think.

 

[inspirer]

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[KiaKaha]

No - mostly because I dont want to pass my inferior genes on to someone.
That would just be cruel.

 

[Foxface]

No - mostly because I dont want to pass my inferior genes on to someone.
That would just be cruel.

Ha ha. I like this.

 

[Remus]

I've got three and they are wonderful! I don't want any more though, I think three is more than enough little remus's in the world.

 

[starburst]

My husband and I have been trying to conceive. So yes, I would love to have a child.