There is always something you can do. You just have to think outside the box.
Do you ever wish you could die?
- Thread starter Tomasso
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There is always something you can do. You just have to think outside the box.
coyote
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it really sucks when you feel like there are no choices, no options, no where to turn
but there usually ARE a number of options besides death
you just can't see them from where you're standing
either you're not ready to, or you don't want to
or your experience in life simply hasn't given you the ability to recognize the choices that are available
don't think you have to come up with all the answers on your own
find someone who can help you
they may be able to see things that you can't
but there usually ARE a number of options besides death
you just can't see them from where you're standing
either you're not ready to, or you don't want to
or your experience in life simply hasn't given you the ability to recognize the choices that are available
don't think you have to come up with all the answers on your own
find someone who can help you
they may be able to see things that you can't
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YellowBird
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it's not that much of a hard decision for me anymore,i'm just waiting in case something better comes up,there's a fat chance but you never know,i'd like to have a couple of fun times before i go,i was the fastest little sperm afterall!
gustavofring
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Sounds exactly like my life too.
the_caretaker
Member
Never, because there's a world outside of smaltown U.S.A. and let me tell you something it's beautiful. I wouldn't want to die because I love living too much and, I know it seems like you got too much on your plate for you too handle but you don't have to do it alone. Find a friend, and for starters i'll be your friend, ever want to talk just holler.
JustMe1987
Active member
yes. especially wish dying doing something heroic or with heart attack, anything that dont look im a weak and pathethic guy. 
JustMe1987
Active member
so true. if i could choose a superpower i choose invisibility or mental power (but for me this isnt a super power is in a much high level xD)
I used to wish this fairly regularly but I haven't for a long time now. Funnily enough, it took several chronic illnesses for my will to live to kick in. I used to only have to deal with depression and anxiety, and those were driving forces behind wanting to die in the past. But when I started experiencing physical pain every day, for months at a time, my mental issues took a back seat and all I wanted was for my body to feel alright again. Somehow it made me want to fight.
MikeyC
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Interesting point, and it could be part of the reason why Jewel thinks the same.
lilmutegirl
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I have often wished I could die--mostly when I was younger. I've always imagined scenarios in which I could potentially die, especially since my brother was involved in two really bad car accidents. I picture myself driving off the road and hitting a tree and dying.
Right now, I almost wish I could die because I feel like an awful parent to my son, even though I'm the better parent. He was literally just beating me, and I have pretty much given up for the night. I'm horrible at discipline, and though I think he's a good person/kid underneath everything, I worry how my lack of parenting skills will affect him.
Right now, I almost wish I could die because I feel like an awful parent to my son, even though I'm the better parent. He was literally just beating me, and I have pretty much given up for the night. I'm horrible at discipline, and though I think he's a good person/kid underneath everything, I worry how my lack of parenting skills will affect him.
ScaredToBreathe
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That's like how I feel! I dunno if this is how you meant it, but I'd wanna be gone n not hav to deal with people and life but still be aware and conscious of everything. like being invisible or a ghost or somethin haha
ScaredToBreathe
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back when i was in grade school i wanted to die so badly. i still hate life but now i don't ever want to die even though some days i feel like it would be so nice to just drift off into sleep and never wake up to worry about anything again. but i know i have too much to live for and a future full of potential awesomeness.
also right now i have to live for my pets i'm their mom and if i die no one will care for them as much as i do and they'd be the only ones who'd be sad and miss me. i just cant ever leave them. i guess having someone or something meaningful to me to hold on to in life keeps me going.
also right now i have to live for my pets i'm their mom and if i die no one will care for them as much as i do and they'd be the only ones who'd be sad and miss me. i just cant ever leave them. i guess having someone or something meaningful to me to hold on to in life keeps me going.
L30n0r4Qu1g13y
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Always, but I would be too scared to actually do it. I always wish thete was just a button I could ppress and I'd be gone. Actually dying is too messy and painful
gustavofring
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狼;592270 said:
Tolle really has some helpful insights whenever I feel consumed by stressful thoughts and anxiety.