Why is it so hard for you people to believe that there are many people out there that will place a label on people?
The women that ignored the OP are out there everywhere. It has nothing to do with the OP's approach, it's all about who he is viewed as by the women. Many women relate shyness + average or below average looks to creepiness or loserness. The minute they get any kind of hint of lower social status, these type of women will be against you. They won't just ignore you, they will literally hate you.
Guys can do this too, mostly to other guys. They will look at you and if they don't see an alpha male with high social status or high social confidence, they will label you as a freak or loser and not give you the time of day.
Before everyone starts telling me not everyone does this stuff, I'm not saying everyone does this stuff, but there a lot of people who do.
Society is mostly shallow. Many people aren't accepting of different people, especially here in the states. It's funny because we have a such a social society that is well....anti-social. All the new technology is making things worse.
As for the guys in movies who are "losers" yet they always figure out how to be superheroes of the day and get the hot chick, that's total bs. For one thing, 90% of men aren't as good-looking as the guy in the movie. Plus, everything works perfectly in movies, which has nothing to do with real life. Life is full of imperfections, especially with people.
Unfortunately, it's not about being a good or bad guy. It's all about showing a genuine interest in women through talking to them over and over again. You can be the biggest jerk in the world, but as long as you talk to women enough, you're golden.
OP, stop telling yourself nobody wants you around. That's not true, because you can't possibly know what every single person on the planet is thinking. You are just like me, we just need to find people that like us as friends. They are out there. I've had friends before, and they liked me.
I think you must accept that there will be negative, insecure people out there that won't like you. I have my fair share of enemies just because I'm shy. My friend was telling me about that. I laughed and told him that they don't even know me. I was right, as he agreed. That's the thing. These people that don't talk to you, they don't even know you. For them to not like you is ignorant on their part. They are missing out on you. That's their loss. While they ignore you, I laugh at them for their ignorance. They are missing out.