Being a virgin

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Agent_Violet

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Ashiene said:
Apart from my anxiety, this is my greatest fear. I think a potential girlfriend would run away in terror the moment they find out I have no friends and not outgoing. She will probably think I'm a psycho, potential serial killer thats why no one wants to befriend me.
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not necessarily. you might find a girl who really enjoys that you have plenty of time to spend with her and aren't always running around with the guys and going to bars and clubs,etc. Some girls really just like being the center of their boyfriend's world and that won't happen if he's surrounded by tons of friends and activities.

Personally, i think the guys who aren't very social and don't have a lot of friends make the best boyfriends. They tend to think for themselves without always having to bounce their feelings and thoughts off "their boys", they tend to be more open emotionally bc they aren't afraid of looking bad to their friends,theyve had lots of time alone so they'll appreciate the girl's company more than the social butterfly guys,they tend to be more receptive to various kinds of people...the list goes on...

...then again I'm one of those girls who loves a lot of one on one time with my significant other so i realize not all females appreciate the loner guys.
 
Ragle

Ragle

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There's a rumor on the internet that if you stay a virgin until the age of 30 you become a wizard. Cheer up man!
For the record, I'm 24 and still a virgin.
 
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Nowascki

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I don't care that much about sex, what bother me is the fact I never had any type of relationship (and not even get close of have one).
 
weberriver

weberriver

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I'm still a virgin at 24, and I'm okay with waiting. Sex without love would just make me feel used. It's too intimate an act to just let any random person do the deed -- there would absolutely have to be trust. And THAT is not easy to get from me. :)
 
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Foxface

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I'm 23, and still a virgin, proud to be one, I prefer to wait until marriage. These days, everyopne wants to shag, due to so much of that stuff in the media.

It's hard to find someone who is not about that. I prefer true love over sex. It has been on my mind plenty of times, but I would rather wait.
 
Daniel089

Daniel089

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Well I think I care a lot less now about my virginity but If I'd get into a relationship I would just lose it, I wouldn't wait with it for long, because everyone say it's no big deal. For the first time in my life I would really satisfy my desires...
 
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Foxface

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I just got my Orpahn poster in the mail. Isabelle Fuhrman! I will put it on the ceiling, so when me and my future girlfriend shag (whoever that'll be), she'll be the one on top, becuase, she wouldn't want to staring at a freaky looking girl. LMAO.

No, that's not why I got it, LMAO.
 
Daniel089

Daniel089

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Aspie said:
I just got my Orpahn poster in the mail. Isabelle Fuhrman! I will put it on the ceiling, so when me and my future girlfriend shag (whoever that'll be), she'll be the one on top, becuase, she wouldn't want to staring at a freaky looking girl. LMAO.

No, that's not why I got it, LMAO.
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lol..
I got a poster too, of Adriana Lima's face on my wall hehe
 
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Foxface

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I got two Hunger Games posters on my wall. The main one and the theatric one.My bed is against the wall, so Katniss is starring at me, kinda weird in a way.
 
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Etbow23

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Personally I wish I were still a virgin. My virginity was thrown away, now I can never have a truly normal sex life. I just wish I could go back in time, fix everything that happened to me..
 
Canttakeanymore

Canttakeanymore

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We are in the same boat my friend. I'm 25 and I haven't had a date or sex. I'm just too shy around people for that right now. Also the fact that I'm gay and living in this small southern town is not making the situation any easier.

Over the years Ive just gone along with people just assuming that I had been sexually active. No ones ever asked for the details of my first time so I just let them think whatever they wanted. sex is a big part of everyday life living in the country and to not be sexually active would lead to a lot of issues and gossip.

Now I'm at the point where I'm wanting to change that. I've had a very lonely life. Before my SA progressed to this stage I had about a handful of friends. Now I'm down to none since my last friend left town. I haven't completely prepared myself to go out and have a relationship with the first guy I come across but I know Ill be ready eventually.

Once I get over my SA and somehow explain my sexuality (yea I know I shouldn't have to explain but my situation isn't normal...) then I'm getting me a man!!! :D
 
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Foxface

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Sometimes, like right now, I wish that I wasn't a virgin. At least I would have a good memory to keep me from feeling depressed, knowing that I got to be with someone... But then again, I wouldn't be feeling depressed becuase they'd still be with me.
 
Lexis

Lexis

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I'm a virgin and proud to be one :) Giving up your V-card should be with the person you truely love, which is why I choose to wait for the right guy to come along.
 
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pirana

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dang..i dnt give any damn importance to my virginity....

i am 22 n i dnt are to stay virgin some more years..


why u guys give so much importance to sex...
 
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pirana

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i am happy coz i am proud of myself...
that i havent lost my virginity to anybody whom i cant see as my lifepartner..i really feel happy abt it
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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Lexis said:
I'm a virgin and proud to be one :) Giving up your V-card should be with the person you truely love, which is why I choose to wait for the right guy to come along.
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I admire this. I no longer feel the same, though. While I don't care that I'm a virgin, I will be glad to lose it to anyone when I feel I'm in the right mindset.
 
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