tooshytosay
Well-known member
I've noticed that in most conversations, people are really, really good at turn-taking.
That is, people seem to know exactly when to say something, without interrupting another person mid-sentence, yet allowing almost no silence to come in between them either.
Now I know sometimes a person ends up interrupting another person, speaking at the same time, etc. but that seems to be the exception not the rule.
Unfortunately I almost always end up interrupting or speaking on top of another person :: - I just can't seem to find that right timing to speak. To avoid this I might actually wait for there to be a true "silence" before I say something. But all this usually ends up doing is making the conversation really "broken" and stilted - not the seamless conversation I observe other people having.
It's either that or if they're a talkative person, they would just keep talking and talking, probably because they don't like silence. Then at the end of it all they'll be like "why don't you ever say something?" (And I'll be like "... because I didn't want to interrupt you!" :
It only gets worse with group conversations, I can never "squeeze" myself in because everyone is so good at knowing when to speak.
That is, people seem to know exactly when to say something, without interrupting another person mid-sentence, yet allowing almost no silence to come in between them either.
Now I know sometimes a person ends up interrupting another person, speaking at the same time, etc. but that seems to be the exception not the rule.
Unfortunately I almost always end up interrupting or speaking on top of another person :: - I just can't seem to find that right timing to speak. To avoid this I might actually wait for there to be a true "silence" before I say something. But all this usually ends up doing is making the conversation really "broken" and stilted - not the seamless conversation I observe other people having.
It's either that or if they're a talkative person, they would just keep talking and talking, probably because they don't like silence. Then at the end of it all they'll be like "why don't you ever say something?" (And I'll be like "... because I didn't want to interrupt you!" :
It only gets worse with group conversations, I can never "squeeze" myself in because everyone is so good at knowing when to speak.