Anyone else lonely?

Neph

Neph

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i never feel lonely even when i am alone now

when i was little though i truly was
 
LonelyGuy48

LonelyGuy48

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Well, I don't HAVE any close family members anymore

The health authorities are useless and look at the wrong end of things!

Anyway, I will just throw myself into becoming the best damn web designer out there now! THAT is a challenge I can rise to!
 
MotherWolff

MotherWolff

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But I bet there are millions of people out there who have loads of friends and they still feel like the loneliest creature that ever walked the face of this earth. I wonder why that is so....Maybe having friends wouldn't cure my loneliness after all.
 
LonelyGuy48

LonelyGuy48

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Oh yeah I know what you mean.
You can be lonely on your own or lonely with lots of people around you.

I guess what I mean then and maybe a few of us do, is that I feel isolated, alienated - that's different - well, 'different' is another way of putting it too!
 
MotherWolff

MotherWolff

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Yeah that's exactly how I feel; isolated and alienated. In fact, I feel even more lonely when I'm with a crowd of people than when I'm at home all by myself. I wonder if I would yearn for human companionship if I were the only person left in the world. How would any of you feel if you were the only person left in this big world?
 
LonelyGuy48

LonelyGuy48

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Well, I remember an Australian Sci-Fi film, which I used to have on DVD, about a guy who woke up one morning and found he was the only person left alive on the planet, apparently...
and that made me think. I could relate to it. It's difficult isn't it? I hate being alone and long for company, and yet people make me nervous!

I'm at my worse in crowded places like supermarkets, and on the bus - I hate that!

I remember a holiday where we (as a family) stayed in a farmhouse in the middle of nowhere, and I was fine there because there was no one around!
 
MotherWolff

MotherWolff

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I think most humans naturally want to be with other humans simply because of what we are; humans. But there are folks out there that hate to hear that "humans are sociable creatures" probably because those folks aren't sociable themselves. Of course I'm hardly sociable but I do want to be with other people. But I am also so nervous to be around even one other person nowadays. I can't stand going into supermarkets either and buses have my heart beating fast. But wouldn't it be awful to know that there are absolutely no humans around to just speak to, like that Australian movie you mentioned or like I Am Legend starring Will Smith? I imagine that our loneliness would only get worse. :?
 
StuckGirl

StuckGirl

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I feel very lonely at the moment as I don't have many people to talk to ,but I also like space. Confusing.
 
N

Number 1

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the day is just too damn long, i can only keep myself busy until my bordeom keeps getting to me. i have msn too, hit me up if you want
 
recluse

recluse

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sleepysparrow said:
Me too. I don't have any friends. I feel I can only be friends with someone with similar problems. I don't like using msn or the internet to talk to people, I want a real friend, someone I can actually see, laugh with, hang out with and talk to about anything. I'm missing a real friendship.
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I also hate using the internet to talk to people. I had a phase of going on msn everynight but i'm so sick of it all. It's so impersonal, i hate not hearing the persons voice o'r seeing their face when talking to them, and i can't express my feelings unless i put a smiley o'r lol after every sentence.
 
danisky

danisky

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I definitely feel lonely most of the time. It's always me and the internet, and even sometimes being online can make me feel worse. Specifically when I look at my friends' pictures and they're all out somewhere, traveling, with boyfriends/girlfriends. It's like "who do I have?".
 
StuckGirl

StuckGirl

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I don't mind talking on MSN but it is hard finding people on my wavelength. Most people online are dodgy men or idiots who irritate me with text speak
 
G

Gone to the darkness

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Hey I know how you guys feel you know I never knew that there was a name for this kind of feeling, until now...I sure feel extreme loneliness I love to go out; but when I go to a party or a club I feel like a dork just standing there and watching people have fun and I'm just there standing, too afraid of saying something stupid, and I do want to meet people, but I'm just too afraid of speaking or keeping up a conversation. That's why I don't have a boyfriend or many friends it's just sad I wish I could just talk more without feeling like if everybody would hate me.
 
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LycraPantiies92

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Lonely. God. Lonely is not how you'd describe it. Completely alienated, by society like.
The only chance i get to be myself, the internet. But it doesn't like me. In real life i seem to attract druggies, on the internet i attract pervs. What did i do?
All i really want after a hard day at school or whatever is to come online & talk with peeps, meh, if i actually had any. Msn i a waste of my time, i cud sit on there for hours and be completely left out, i'm sitting there wondering, 'is everyone all talking to their real life friends or something?:(' cos i don't get invited to convos, makes me sad, i treat some peeps online like i would treat a real life friend as well =| and sometimes i think i mean didily squit to them =/ x
 
H

-hermit-

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Yes I am lonely but after a while it's just a word and less of a feeling. Only person I have to speak to is my mum and to be honest when your mum is your best friend you just feel even worse, I don't want to die but also don't want to live. What the ****...........................................................
 
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Beyondshy

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Yeah I'm lonely. I could go into more detail but I'm not feeling too bad today and I don't want to depress myself!
 
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