Anyone else lonely?

[Remus]

yup lonely, infact I feel lonely even when with people sometimes too, my small amount of freinds have left my area (and my brother) leaving me with one left who is always "a bit busy", so am going to try to make new freinds somehow

 

[Marie1988]

im lonely. and i haven got SA. i have friends and family. but im missing someone to love, which is all i want right now

 

[mjordan]

Also lonely, so lonely it physically hurts.

 

[Ashiene]

well i just got a new game, "Left 4 Dead" and of coz i bought it online and had it delivered right to my doorstep.

its a fun survival-horror online game and keeping me happy so i dont think about my loneliness thaat much now!

 

[enchantress24]

loneliness has become my best friend

 

[Liz17]

I really do feel lonely at the minute, the support I had before seems to ahve desserted me.

 

[Andrew]

Yes, that is why I came on here. I wish you all lived near me and we could hang out... Even when I am around people, I still feel alone. It is only around people that understand that I feel comfortable.

 

[sleepysparrow]

Yes, that is why I came on here. I wish you all lived near me and we could hang out... Even when I am around people, I still feel alone. It is only around people that understand that I feel comfortable.

Me too. I don't have any friends. I feel I can only be friends with someone with similar problems. I don't like using msn or the internet to talk to people, I want a real friend, someone I can actually see, laugh with, hang out with and talk to about anything. I'm missing a real friendship.

 

[Andrew]

Yes, that is why I came on here. I wish you all lived near me and we could hang out... Even when I am around people, I still feel alone. It is only around people that understand that I feel comfortable.

Me too. I don't have any friends. I feel I can only be friends with someone with similar problems. I don't like using msn or the internet to talk to people, I want a real friend, someone I can actually see, laugh with, hang out with and talk to about anything. I'm missing a real friendship.

I feel exactly the same way. I have kind of given up on relationships with other types of people, and talking to people on the internet is just nothing. When I have had friends, I am so nervous around them that they get sick of me and don't want to hang around with me.

 

[no1]

so we are not alone. in some ways at least.

but no sometimes I feel so lonely I just want to die, or I just feel "unreal" or something.

 

[Hector]

Yeah, I can relate to all of you. I really don't do anything all day other then watch tv, talk on the phone, or get on the internet. And this has been my daily routine for a couple years. It just pisses me off really because I'm 19 years old and should be doing something productive with my life, but it's like all the energy has been sucked out of me these last few years. I like just being by myself pretty much all the time now. I've lost touch with reality. I too have msn if anybody here ever wants to talk. Just let me know.

 

[Jeb]

I'm no longer welcome in my neighbours' homes, I've driven Jimmy away and I don't even have a gun in the house anymore because firing my practise rounds used to p**s Jimmy off.

I'm pretty sure fate is screwing with Jeb out of nothing but spite now.

 

[LonelyGuy48]

I am very lonely - it is a terrible feeling.

I long for the love of a woman, but who wants an agoraphobic?
I feel like I have a lot to give, but nobody wants it!

I do have friends thankfully, but I don't see them very often.

I feel lonely when I do manage to go out, as others have said. I feel 'different' - I used to have a feeling that people were watching me, but thankfully that has gone now, though the fear remains.

 

[Havocan]

Yeah, could use some more company. In real life and on MSN, mostly it's filled with brainless twits who never care to chat at all. Would be nice to have someone else there^^.
And of course a girlfriend, that will never happen to me, it seems like.

 

[QuietDave]

Hell yeah I'm as lonely as the rest of you. I got MSN but a bit of a newbie with it.

 

[faithnomore]

Yeah, could use some more company. In real life and on MSN, mostly it's filled with brainless twits who never care to chat at all. Would be nice to have someone else there^^.
And of course a girlfriend, that will never happen to me, it seems like.

lol i can relate to that. It gets very lonely not being able to go out.

Its really hard to be around "normal" people in society, because they seem so damn judgemental.

 

[Kien]

neds/chav

What is that? :S

 

[MotherWolff]

I don't think I'd feel so lonely if I had friends I could relate to even though our kind is of the minority(SAD sufferers). Would I be happier? I think very much so I would!

 

[LonelyGuy48]

I tried to take my life today. Obviously I failed...!!

I am so very lonely in this world

Strange though that now, I am determined to change things for the better

There IS hope. Just have to find it

 

[jayo]

I tried to take my life today. Obviously I failed...!!

I am so very lonely in this world

Strange though that now, I am determined to change things for the better

There IS hope. Just have to find it

Man - there is always hope.
I wrote a suicide note a couple of weeks back after a heavy drinking session where I was on edge and it scared me because I had never done that before.
But 2 days later I was better after talking things through a little with some close family members.
Now I am focused on challenging my fears a little each day, accepting myself a little more each day and looking forward to the spring and summer.
I realise that all of us - ALL - have issues and problems and we all need to help from others but we have to help ourselves most of all.
We are approaching Feb 1 - think ahead 3 months to May 1 and summer - what can you achieve in those 3 months - lose a little weight, meet some people, get a part time job, start swimming etc - and go for it!

Best of luck buddy!