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Even though I'm married, how ever I have no girl friends to hang out with due to SA and I feel ashamed that I haven't any close friends to hang out with. Is there anyone else who feels ashamed or embarrased due to not having any friends to hang out with.
Hello all, I'm new here.so I'm trying to make a few friends online at least.I have a VERY few friends and just last night they asked me to come over and I declined.They have asked me to come over on weekends when they are off for over a month now,and I have turned them down each time. I tell them not to give up on me,that I will accept one of these days,but I think they're getting tired of asking. I have one really close friend,but we've drifted apart because he got into drugs heavily and now he's in jail.He calls me from jail and gets out in July, so I hope he stays clean and we can start hanging out again.
It seems everyone I know has friends. Even people with severe social anxiety and/or depression have friends. My social anxiety isn't severe and I'm able to not let my depression take control over me on most days. But I have no friends. When I was in school or working I'd have acquaintances but never make any real friends because I am too shy and scared of getting hurt to try to get close to anyone.
I used to have a lot of friends, but because of my SA especially my agoraphobia i lost touch with all of them. I can't blame them though i never took them up on offers to go out so they just stopped asking and we eventually drifted apart. Now i have no one in real life, and it gets so lonely at times!