Anyone else have no friends?
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Pink_Paula
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I used to have a lot of friends, but because of my SA especially my agoraphobia i lost touch with all of them. I can't blame them though i never took them up on offers to go out so they just stopped asking and we eventually drifted apart. Now i have no one in real life, and it gets so lonely at times!
oi so i dont exist anymorewere freinds lurk :
I was talking about people I see in real life... there's only so much you can do with online gf's :
:I'm not sure that I feel ashamed or embarrassed, but not having people to hang out with just makes feel left out of the loop. Years ago, my husband (now ex) once asked me why I didn't get some friends to hang out with... I can't remember what my answer was, or if I was even able to answer- I probably said "I don't know." If I were honest with him, I would have said "I don't know how."
writer75
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Hello all, I'm new here.so I'm trying to make a few friends online at least. I have a VERY few friends and just last night they asked me to come over and I declined.They have asked me to come over on weekends when they are off for over a month now,and I have turned them down each time. I tell them not to give up on me,that I will accept one of these days,but I think they're getting tired of asking. I have one really close friend,but we've drifted apart because he got into drugs heavily and now he's in jail.He calls me from jail and gets out in July, so I hope he stays clean and we can start hanging out again.
I have a VERY few friends and just last night they asked me to come over and I declined.They have asked me to come over on weekends when they are off for over a month now,and I have turned them down each time. I tell them not to give up on me,that I will accept one of these days,but I think they're getting tired of asking. I have one really close friend,but we've drifted apart because he got into drugs heavily and now he's in jail.He calls me from jail and gets out in July, so I hope he stays clean and we can start hanging out again.
TRRobin
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Hello all, I'm new here.so I'm trying to make a few friends online at least.
Give it a little time friend, it won't be long.
Soon enough, things will fall into place.
Aslong as you know that, you have nothing to worry about.
Mokkat
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I hate the way I make friendships with other people. I do make friends, but Im not very good at maintaining them because I usually stay home on the computer. Also I have a big problem with introducing my own friends to each other - just thinking about it makes me nervous :S
dooby-duck
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I don't really have any friend anymore. I seem to leave them behind when I leave places, school uni etc...
I'm useless at keeping in touch with people.
I'm useless at keeping in touch with people.
Flowers-Of-Bloom
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Yeah, I guess I don't really have any friends. Acquaintances that I have known for a long time, but never actually gotten close to.
I subconsciously try not to make friends. There's too many strings attached.
I subconsciously try not to make friends. There's too many strings attached.
kbzeppelin1
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I have one but she lives 3000 miles away from me, but closer to home I don't. I moved to a small town and it's been hell trying to meet new friends. I have met people but it doesn't work out because I get too anxious and shy. But I will keep trying, I can't let myself get so sad over this anymore.
It seems like some people find it so easy to make a friend. It's quite a chore for me.
LycraPantiies92
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Yep. Me..
I dunno. I'm not horrible or anything (and i am being totally honest) i really did think i was a nice person, but really if i was i wouldn't have nobody.
I'm happy like this though, feck people, don't need them. just have to find a way to get through the loneliness and boredom.
206Raider
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This.......
some my old closest friends are like strangers now, especially my old bestfriend I've known since second grade....he moved away for a couple years to Texas, came back and I was more SA than ever before and never really hung out with him. Now when I see him it's like we've never known eachother.
