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    What girls want and me

    Today I got to be a fly on the wall as several of my female friends gathered to discuss what they wanted in a man (some of them whom I have been infatuated with in the past), and came to the realization that my fears of being undesirable as a romantic partner has been confirmed. Here is a list...
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    Sexual anxiety

    So I've always been pretty insecure about my own sexuality. The girls I've been with have been less than inspiring in the sack, and I can't say I have done much to encourage them, although I feel I have done the best I can. It is kind of hard to please someone when they don't give any signs of...
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    Merry Christmas everyone

    And a happy new year :)
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    What's most important to you when you look for a relationship?

    What is the first thing you look for in a potential partner? 1 Charm The person has a positive attitude, is funny and popular. 2 Money The person has a lot of material wealth. 3 Looks The person is physically attractive. 4 Stability The person provides financial and emotional stability...
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    upndwns rants

    I've had a lot on my mind lately and I feel like venting out some frustrations, but I don't want to pollute any other threads with my negative thoughts, so I made this thread as a personal space to rant and complain. Feel free to comment and give advice, but be warned that this thread might get...
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    Things you think are underrated

    As a counterpart to THIS thread, I thought I would make a thread where we could list stuff we think are underrated. I'll start: Movies based on books Cover songs Space exploration The dangers of overpopulation Ray Langston from C.S.I The new Star Wars trilogy Symphonic metal The scope of...
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    I want a relationship

    I am so tired of seeing everyone else meet a partner, moving in together and have relationships which has lasted for years. Almost everyone I know, even the most socially awkward manages somehow to meet someone, me I'm 33 and my longest relationship as an adult lasted for three months. Every...
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    Welcome

    I've been away for a few days and when I logged on I saw a lot of new members that had joined the community. So to all newcomers on SPW I want to welcome you. I'm looking forward to reading your posts and getting to know you better. :)
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    Random insults

    The last two times I have been out on the town. Two random people have stepped up to me and commented my appearance for no apparent reason. I don't know wether I should get insulted or take it as friendly critique. I must admit that I have chosen an unorthodox style (long hair, dark clothes) to...
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    Social hierarchy

    I don't know if it's just me imagining things, but lately I've become aware of a sort of sublime social hierarchy within my circle of friends. I may loose my apartment soon, because my landlord has sold his house. Some friends of mine was talking about renting a house together and I said that...
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    Any metalheads here?

    Surely I can't be the only one bowing to the metal throne? Favorite bands and songs? Those who like hard rock can also post :D
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    My PM's disappeared

    As the title says. I had two PM's, but when I responded to one they both disappeared so I never got to read the other one. Now it says 0 messages in my inbox. Never mind, found them. Mods, you can delete this thread now if you want to.
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    Greetings from Norway

    Hello everybody :) I happened to stumble upon this site in search of a community of people with which i could share my troubles and experiences with like-minded individuals. I'm 32 years old currently live on welfare after a two years hiatus from work due to health issues. I hope to get back...
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