I realized yesterday that I have (yet another) problem. My original problem is that most of the time I feel very, very lonely. In short, I have some classmates I talk to at college but right now I'm done with my courses and just doing my graduation project, and I never really met with them...
How should I flirt with my psychologist?
Yes that's what I'm asking, and before you ask "wtf are you doing?" Well, it was my therapist the one who told me to do it.
You'll see, to keep it short, since I'm 6 I've had a pathological fear to express interest in women. It didn't bothered me until...
So here's the thing:
Due to the incompetence at my university, this semester I could only take 6 classes when I was supposed to take 8, so the global effect it's the same as if I failed those classes, and as a result, I'll be forced to spend an extra semester at college (we have this weird...
When pressures up and the stress is high
and I wanna bid this world good bye
I'm gonna bury my frustrations
grab some of life's satisfactions
yeah I'm gonna live before I die
I try to find some peace of mind
when my life's treating me unkind
pain will be my motivation
I'm gonna use my...
Warning, long post ahead:
In first place, I'm not sure if this post goes in this sub forum, but I guess it does, being ultimately about a social situation that produces me anxiety.
For the ones who are familiar with my posts, you may have noticed an annoying tendency to complain about my...
I'm not sure if is a mentality problem or my brain is just wired that way, and I don't know if that matters at all. The thing is, I can't deal with uncertainty. In aspects like my professional future, although I know I ca't know for sure what will happen, I know I'm doing my part and that gives...
(For the ones who don't know wtf I'm talking about: Festivus - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia)
I've already set my aluminium pole, and I'm about to begin the Airing of Grievances :D
Well who doesn't.
The problem is how to get one. Is not like you go and ask someone "hey you wanna be my close friend?". Meeting and getting closer with someone is something that happens by chance, whether offline or online.
Then I'm this predicament. I want a close friend, but I'm feeling...
After avoiding it for quite some time, two months ago I finally managed to seek for professional help with university psychologist. After telling her which were my problems and my circumstances, we figured out what should I do in order to improve my life. To keep it short, we arrived to this...
I'll start by saying that I'm telling this with the idea that it may somehow inspire anyone here to face a fear, or attempt to do something they would usually avoid.
If you're familiar with my posts, you may have noticed an even annoying tendency of me to complain too much about my loneliness...
For the ones who didn't know, three weeks ago I finally got the nerve to start to use the free psychological service of my university. And yesterday came one moment I was fearing: when I was told to take initiative on the real word.
The psychologist told me that if I want to stop having such a...
First I'm going to quote myself from a previous thread where I mentioned my lack of privacy:
I live in a small house; I only don't have my own bedroom, I don't have a bedroom at all. The house where I live (which is rented BTW), only has two rooms, the bathroom, the kitchen, a small backyard...
Since I woke up last Monday, a feeling of anxiety has been affecting me. I consider myself avoidant because I avoid the subject of my anxiety, so usually I just feel fear when I'm close to the subject and that way I avoid to get anxiety attacks (not sure about the avoidant stuff, I've just...
*I have no idea of how to ask out a gilr without sound like I'm unsuing some stupid and lame predetermined formula, so no idea what to write either, I hope I make my point.
*To my father: I'm sick of you you egomaniac senile gullible man! You think you're f****** perfect with your crazy fairy...
Disclaimer: Long venting/rant ahead. Reader discretion is advised.
The following story still bugs to this day. Let's see if writing it down helps at all.
The whole thing started way back in 2003. I was going to start my second to last high school year. And until the previous year, I was...
Just find about it today, and damn, I'm almost a textbook example, may be the intrusive thinking is not that heavy, but it looks like I was the subject of study of the article that introduced the concept.
Limerence - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia