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Has anybody on here had CBT (Cognative Behavoral Therapy) for shyness & how did it go.

Hi I just want some advice about how to approach a lady of whom I have become fond of at work from sort of afar. She is Russian but does speak english but not very well but the problem is I don't come into contact with her very much apart from in passing & don't always say hello because I am...

Hello Its Littlewilly here, Haven't been on here for sometime if at all this year or at least to make comments anyway. Just wanted to ask are there any FB users on here & do you ever feel that if you post or when you post something or make a comment to a subject & no one replies to it or makes a...

Hi I mean not only big ambitions say to make the world a better place or raising money for a charity etc, but never moving up in your career at work when you may or did have the chance to do so, Because I believe that's what happened to me because of my confidence & low self-esteem problems...

Went up too Liverpool today by train from Milton keynes where I live I arranged to meet a friend from work at the station in Liverpool (Lime street) & everything went according to plan with the trains as I had to change various times there & back & what we both went there for which was to visit...

Anyone here feel comfortable around some people & shy around others. I know I have at work sometimes or elsewhere where I can feel open with certain people & get sort of tongue-teid aroud others especially with certain women which has always been an issue for me. I can sometimes be working with...

I have never been married or had a girlfriend basically I have been very shy all my life & have suffered Social Anxiety/Phobia or GAD as a whole probably due to past experiences like Bullying & Teasing etc. I have had crushes on females over the years though but was too shy to approach them at...

Anyone on here been in the sad situation of missed opportunities of being in a possible loving relationship with someone because you hadn't or didn't realise that it was possibly staring you in the face all the time & you were to busy with your preoccupations on others, I know I have. :sad:

Has anyone on here ever become obsessed with a crush or an infatuation over someone & they don't know how to let go.:idontknow:

Any1 watching the Olympics:)

I know this sounds unbelieveable but I have been out of work now for nearly 10 years. I live in the uk & I used to work for the BBCTV until i was made redundant because the place where i worked the operation closed down. Afterwards i then became a paid carer for my elderly parents, mainly just...

I am 51 years old. I am heterosexual but I have never had sex with another person (FEMALE) never dated,relationship etc. I have never felt like a real human being. Emotionally everything is turned inwards & broken. I rarely go out now & I sometimes feel cut off from the world & don't know where...

Does anyone on here suffer from a fear called Geliophobia. Its a fear of Laughter or being around people who are laughing.:D I never knew such a phobia existed until I punched into the internet (fear of laughter or laughing) & this word came up. Strange I know but not so.It seems to be quite...

I know this will sound crazy but I have never had a girlfriend or been married or anything but I have fantasized that I have been over the last 30 years on people that I have had crushes on or people that I think might have been interested in getting to know me in the past. Yes im shy & was...

Hi, have'nt been on for a while so I just thought I'd let you's know that a couple of weeks ago I finally made up my mind after speaking to my doc last year about what to do about GAD. He told me I will need to see a therapist so I went to the local church where the counselling office's are...

Well thats it I have turned 50 2day & have never dated. Now where do I go from here. Actually it was a very good day as all but most of my family turned up at a surprise party at the local pub cum resturant. But I still felt very lonely & feel i've now missed the boat on ever finding any1 now or...

Hi my name is John & I've bin on this site since March this year (2010) & although I've posted replies on other threads I haven't yet Introduced myself on here. I don't even kno whether or not I would belong on this particular site bcause sum of u all seem sumwat younger than me "Not that is a...

Any1 here,there or anywhere find it difficult in finding a Job or even keeping a Job thru there Anxiety or mayb in just looking 4 a Job & not really knowing where 2 look or start looking or not knowing how 2 just fill-in or print out a job application?.

Is there any1 out there who is suffering from shyness/social phobia etc & in there 40's or 50's who has had a lifetime of this life crippling desease of never being able 2 get close 2 any1 (Female) or had no close friendships of any kind,just acquaintences. I've had crush after crush & even had...