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Sarah_M

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Deadman Walking and Vj288,
Thank you guys so much. I have done it on several occasions, just not everyday and it helps a lot. Today, thankfully, is a MUCH better day. I found out that all of my problems (mentally) are due to a hormone imbalance (which I kind of already knew). I saw a spe******t today and I feel very hopeful that I will get a lot of my problems resolved. It just need to get my blood work done and go from there :)
 
FountainandFairfax

FountainandFairfax

in a VAN down by the RIVER
BlueDays said:
Wow. Just wow.
I can't stop thinking of what was done to her to make her that terrified, on a 24/7 basis. :eek:

But so good to see that man help her to slowly make a full recovery. That man deserves a gold medal for patience, lol. :applause:
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I agree, Blue.

They said she was taken from a horder's home. She probably lived in squalor and might've only ever known one other human.
 
BlackPuma

BlackPuma

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Talking about hobbies with people is among the top things that make me most nervous. It's not that I don't have a lack of passion talking about them, but most of the time you can read in people's eyes they feel sorry for even asking once you start talking about them. It doesn't help that the VAST majority of people I talk to are non-gamers, and that the rest of my hobbies are quite niche, and incredibly dry/technical.
 
FountainandFairfax

FountainandFairfax

in a VAN down by the RIVER
I need money.

Not a ton, just a lot.

Money would fix my big problems, knock down the major obstacles.

After all this, I'm not looking for happiness, just a reasonable amount of predictability.

A little bit of control.
 
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SilentAndShy

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I'm due to become a father soon to twins within the next few weeks and I'm paralysed by fear and anxiety because I can't ask for help on buying a car. Everyone in my family thinks I'm not bothered but it seems they don't know me at all to know I find it difficult to ask for help. I wish they can reach out to me but I can't. Some role model I will be for my kids
 
vj288

vj288

not actually Fiona Apple
FountainandFairfax said:
I need money.

Not a ton, just a lot.

Money would fix my big problems, knock down the major obstacles.

After all this, I'm not looking for happiness, just a reasonable amount of predictability.

A little bit of control.
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I too could use some money please.

If I win the lottery I'll share with you if when you win the lottery you'll share with me. ;)
 
FountainandFairfax

FountainandFairfax

in a VAN down by the RIVER
SilentAndShy said:
I'm due to become a father soon to twins within the next few weeks and I'm paralysed by fear and anxiety because I can't ask for help on buying a car. Everyone in my family thinks I'm not bothered but it seems they don't know me at all to know I find it difficult to ask for help. I wish they can reach out to me but I can't. Some role model I will be for my kids
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I'm sorry to hear that, man.

I couldn't imagine having kids, you're lucky in that regard.

I'd ask a friend to ask for me or something. "Fountain's got too much pride..." or something similar.
 
Kiwong

Kiwong

Well-known member
FountainandFairfax said:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3bifbg12u28
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Pacific_Loner

Pacific_Loner

Pirate from the North Pole
SilentAndShy said:
I'm due to become a father soon to twins within the next few weeks and I'm paralysed by fear and anxiety because I can't ask for help on buying a car. Everyone in my family thinks I'm not bothered but it seems they don't know me at all to know I find it difficult to ask for help. I wish they can reach out to me but I can't. Some role model I will be for my kids
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This is the kind of situation where you have to stop thinking, just take the phone, compose your familiy's phone number and say "listen, I hate to ask you this, but I need help to buy a car because I'm going to have twins." Then you just surf on whatever answer you get.
 
MollyBeGood

MollyBeGood

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I wish it would friggin rain! It hasn't rained here in almost 4 months and this is supposed to be a wet climate here in these parts.
 
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SilentAndShy

Well-known member
Pacific_Loner said:
This is the kind of situation where you have to stop thinking, just take the phone, compose your familiy's phone number and say "listen, I hate to ask you this, but I need help to buy a car because I'm going to have twins." Then you just surf on whatever answer you get.
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FountainandFairfax said:
I'm sorry to hear that, man. I couldn't imagine having kids, you're lucky in that regard. I'd ask a friend to ask for me or something. "Fountain's got too much pride..." or something similar.
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Thank you.

I feel like I'll have to take a hit financially, or to my confidence or whatever to just get a car. When I was at the hospital today, I took my first step to speak to an instructor about a lesson to get over some rust, then I thought I'd come home and go and look at a car. When I came home, fear inhibited me and I couldn't.

I'm lucky to have a wife who hasn't caused a fuss about my lack of assertiveness but I hope to take a positive step, i.e. asking my brother for information tomorrow.
 
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