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    I speak fluent retard

    Why do I always say stupid things? This is why I like to be quiet. When I DO say something funny, people don't get my humor. When I DO say something smart, they disregard it. So, I end up saying things that either don't make sense or I regret saying later, etc. If you have a mouth, does...
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    Post a picture of your Obsession!

    Awesome! I can only find these here where I live...
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    M o t i v a t e m e

    Hello. Just me here. Hey, I need a favor. I am struggling with making conversations at work. Even eye contact sometimes is hard. What can I do to be motivated to move/change/act?! How do I push myself? What self-talk is needed? "Just do it" Nike says. PSH yeah, wish it was that easy. I...
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    Smurfette revealed

    This is as close as u will get to see the real me... That's all. Carry on...
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    Go ahead, make 'em smile!

    Ok, so I notice these posts are usually about me or us...so I just hafta ask... What is one nice thing u did or said to someone lately and what can u do tomorrow for someone else? :)
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    Are you SLOUCHING?

    Freeze! Before you read on, I want u to take a look at urself right now. Are you sitting? Straight? Just a quick assignment for ya. If you're walking/sitting straight, I bet your confidence just might elevate a bit. Just want u to keep this in mind cuz I know I slouch (and love it too) but...
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    W.W.W.W.W? (another game)

    This one is called: WHO WHAT WHERE WHEN WHY Person #1 writes a name(s) of a person/people. Person #2 writes what this person or people did. Person #3...I think you get the idea. Let's try: PRESIDENT OBAMA
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    Topic Tumbler Game

    I will give u one word and u will tell me what u think about it in one sentence. So for example, let's say my word for you was SOCKS. You might say: "They are smelly" or "I'm not wearing any". Then u write a word for the next person. Your word is PEANUTS
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    Be My Puppetmaster

    I want to be challenged to face my SA but preferably in babysteps. So here's what I want from you: Give me a suggestion of what you'd like me to do and I will get back to you on what I have achieved... please and spank you...err I mean please and thank you ::p: I'm basically asking for...
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    Smurf class (for those who really WANT help)

    Ok, so I started this other thread and I'm really excited about it because it will keep us accountable to each other. Here is a recap: Ok, I know we have social anxieties but what is your BIGGEST fear? Large crowds? One-on-one conversation? I want u to think about it. Could u stand in a large...
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    My CHALLENGE 4 u...if u dare

    Ok, I know we have social anxieties but what is your BIGGEST fear? Large crowds? One on one conversation? I want u to think about it. Could u stand in a large crowd without having to say a word? Could u stay in a small room with just one other person but had to talk to them? I want to...
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    Uh-oh. Made plans but don't want to go!

    My work Christmas party is coming up and somehow a couple people convinced me to go. Depending on my SA levels I might have a good time or I might regret this. Where do I sit? With who? What do we talk about? So many undetermined factors. It's easier to sit at home and watch t.v. but I...
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    Dealing with bullies at WORK!

    Grr...it makes me mad that some ppl never grow out of bullying. I'd rather be in elementary school sometimes. I wish my co-worker (let's call her Julie) could be humble and get off her high-horse. It's hard enough that I struggle with SA. I try not to show my struggles because I think she...
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    What "self-talk" do you give yourself?

    I need some suggestions of what to think or do when anxiety is at its peak. What helps you? What goes through your mind that might help? :confused:
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