How are you feeling?

montejocarlo

montejocarlo

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Srijita52 said:
She's very kind to everyone around her but she just seems to have some rigid values about how the society should work and sort of tends to look down upon those who don't fit to her expectations.
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i mean no disrespect to your aunt, but in my opinion, to consider ones personal standards as universal is the highest form of egotism and self-absorption. don't let her words get to you. she's in no position to decide whether you're being selfish or not.
 
Srijita52

Srijita52

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MikeyC said:
There's no right way for society to work, and the fact that her views are so inflexible should indicate that you shouldn't listen to her. Her confirmation bias is clouding her judgment.

If you're anything in real life like you are online, I can only imagine you'd be there for anyone and everyone. Not many families can say they've got that.
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I'm not sure if I'm there for anyone and everyone but I try my best.
She's had a rough life, everyone's always been treating her like a doormat, maybe that's the reason of her inflexible values. I wish I could help her in some way only if she'd let me.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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Srijita52 said:
I'm not sure if I'm there for anyone and everyone but I try my best.
She's had a rough life, everyone's always been treating her like a doormat, maybe that's the reason of her inflexible values. I wish I could help her in some way only if she'd let me.
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That sucks that she's had a rough life, but that's no reason to take it out on you, you know? It's not your fault.
 
Srijita52

Srijita52

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montejocarlo said:
i mean no disrespect to your aunt, but in my opinion, to consider ones personal standards as universal is the highest form of egotism and self-absorption. don't let her words get to you. she's in no position to decide whether you're being selfish or not.
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I'm trying not to, sometimes I still feel a bit hurt though.
 
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Fighter86

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Dissapointed, lonely & upset. Never hated a thing more than my very own life. Sometimes life really gives you no choices. Only always seeing other people with happy lives but never ever myself. I hate everything, my life, my job, my colleagues, my lack of friends. Swell life not.
 
Srijita52

Srijita52

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Fighter86 said:
Dissapointed, lonely & upset. Never hated a thing more than my very own life. Sometimes life really gives you no choices. Only always seeing other people with happy lives but never ever myself. I hate everything, my life, my job, my colleagues, my lack of friends. Swell life not.
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I'm sorry, seems like you're going through a rough time now. Hang in there.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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Fighter86 said:
Dissapointed, lonely & upset. Never hated a thing more than my very own life. Sometimes life really gives you no choices. Only always seeing other people with happy lives but never ever myself. I hate everything, my life, my job, my colleagues, my lack of friends. Swell life not.
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Welcome to my life. Oh, wait, we're talking about you. Damn. ::(: Your fortunes will turn. Can you change any of these things that you hate?
 
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AGR

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dyingtolive said:
hi olhos if u dont mind me ask what u doin in japan?
i thought u were half japanese. where do u plan to go
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I am a fake japanese!I am made in brazil!
My grandparents were born in Japan,but my mother wasnt,she was born in brazil,I only came to Japan because my father and mother came to work here,here I studied in a brazilian school,I am as japanese as people from Australia and US are from England.

On another note I was looking at the website of my old school,what I wouldnt give to turn back time,I did everything wrong and dropped out.
 
superfluouslyme

superfluouslyme

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I got up at 7AM this morning! My sleeping pattern was getting very erratic. I bet my dad that I would be up by 9AM, but I thought I'd tack on a couple extra hours. What do people do at 7AM?
 
Graeme1988

Graeme1988

Hie yer hence from me heath!
Woke up this morning, wondering why I bothered. ::(: I went from being happy to depressed again within the space of 24 hours. Which isn't good. And I thought things were starting to turn around.
 
superfluouslyme

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Graeme1988 said:
Woke up this morning, wondering why I bothered. ::(: I went from being happy to depressed again within the space of 24 hours. Which isn't good. And I thought things were starting to turn around.
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Any idea what caused it? Or is it just one of those feelings that you can't quite figure out? ::(:
 
montejocarlo

montejocarlo

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i feel really lucky. somehow, i'm still whole after almost hitting rock bottom. it's still a mystery to me how these things work.
 
Srijita52

Srijita52

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Graeme1988 said:
Woke up this morning, wondering why I bothered. ::(: I went from being happy to depressed again within the space of 24 hours. Which isn't good. And I thought things were starting to turn around.
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Maybe they are, you being happy atleast for some while is a good thing. I hope your happiness returns again.
 
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Paddy1984

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Srijita52 said:
I'm sorry, what's wrong?
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There's not much that isn't wrong with me. I'm fat, ugly, stupid. I have no social skills. Add it all up and you've got someone who is destined to be alone forever. All I want is someone to love me, but I don't think there's anyone out there for me.
 
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