How are you feeling?

MikeyC

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I dont know what it is but yesterday i felt ok, today Im pretty down. Its probably because its getting darker outside and its been raining all day. Anyone else feeling better when its sunny ?
I don't think the weather influences my mood, but that's speaking on a conscious level. My subconscious may think differently.

Sorry to hear you're feeling down. I'm feeling similarly, so we're twinsies.

*hug*
 

vj288

not actually Fiona Apple
Some people say you should "think" happy thoughts and then you will be happy. Well I am still waiting for that to work.:rolleyes:

*thinks MORE happy thoughts for another hour*.....

I don't think purely thinking them is enough, you have to believe them too. The hope is if you think happy thoughts enough, you'll start to believe them, too. It's why people with body issues are told to look at themselves in the mirror and say "I'm beautiful," if they say it enough times they'll start to see it to be true.
 

NP88

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Bored. Excited to know Im getting a very large income tax return so I can treat myself to some things I've been forced to neglect.
 

DeadmanWalking

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Really, really alone and out of place. I keep verbally assaulting myself and I feel that my father was right when he called me an "accident".
 

Dead_on_Arrival

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Really, really alone and out of place. I keep verbally assaulting myself and I feel that my father was right when he called me an "accident".

Hey man, you are no accident. If your gonna verbaly assault anyone do it to your father, but under your breath so he doesn't hear you.

You are here for a reason, to give people the benefit of your experience and to help them through life like others help you.
 

Silatuyok

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Really, really alone and out of place. I keep verbally assaulting myself and I feel that my father was right when he called me an "accident".

You bring so much to this forum; you are always here welcoming people and inquiring as to how others are feeling and trying to help us. Please don't feel down on yourself, we love you. :)
 

Dead_on_Arrival

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I feel pissed after necking a bottle of Black Tower Rose wine. I feel overwhelming sadness for someone else which has dragged up my own memories, which, I hope I can use to help them through their difficult time
 
Really, really alone and out of place. I keep verbally assaulting myself and I feel that my father was right when he called me an "accident".

The only accident is that you ended up with a father who could say something so cruel as that to his own son.::(:
No one is an accident. That is a dreadful thing for a parent to say to their child. Go and do something that you really enjoy to cheer yourself up, you deserve it!:)
 

DeadmanWalking

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Hey man, you are no accident. If your gonna verbaly assault anyone do it to your father, but under your breath so he doesn't hear you.

You are here for a reason, to give people the benefit of your experience and to help them through life like others help you.

Well, I probably would, if he were around me long enough. He isn't because he never really cared about my brothers and I; I don't hold anything against him, but the fact that a person who I believed and was told that they would care about me the most is a gaping wound in my heart that hasn't healed (nor do I think will it).

Experience? I'm 19 years old and my view of the world is tunnel-vision at best. There's a lot I don't know about the world and I am inexperienced. I always worry that my advice doesn't help or, even worse, makes things worse than they were. I know I'm just sounding like a spineless, weak coward, but that's just what I am. Sorry I'm whining and thank you for trying to make me feel better.
 

DeadmanWalking

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The only accident is that you ended up with a father who could say something so cruel as that to his own son.::(:
No one is an accident. That is a dreadful thing for a parent to say to their child. Go and do something that you really enjoy to cheer yourself up, you deserve it!:)

Well, all he said was that he didn't mean for me to be born; he only planned on having my two brothers. Maybe it's my pessimistic mind warping what he said.

I'm trying to, don't worry:). Right now, I'm trying to finish an anime series and watching Mythbusters.
 

DeadmanWalking

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Feeling a little helpless; wishing I could do more.

What's got you down? If you tried to do something, then I believe that you've done more than enough. Not only due to the fact that kindness and generosity are rare in this age, but also because you are the type of person to exert 110% when you want to help someone:D (at least, that's what I believe).
 

Silatuyok

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What's got you down? If you tried to do something, then I believe that you've done more than enough. Not only due to the fact that kindness and generosity are rare in this age, but also because you are the type of person to exert 110% when you want to help someone:D (at least, that's what I believe).

Without going into too much detail, I'll just say that someone I care about is seriously stressing out about some big things that are going down this weekend, and I've been doing everything I can to help, but it's pretty much out of my hands and all I can do is try to support as much as possible, and not get stressed out myself!
Aside from that, I would like to end pet homelessness, find a cure for poverty, and find a way to cheer up everyone I know who is sad.
I do what I can. :)
 

DeadmanWalking

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Without going into too much detail, I'll just say that someone I care about is seriously stressing out about some big things that are going down this weekend, and I've been doing everything I can to help, but it's pretty much out of my hands and all I can do is try to support as much as possible, and not get stressed out myself!
Aside from that, I would like to end pet homelessness, find a cure for poverty, and find a way to cheer up everyone I know who is sad.
I do what I can. :)

Well, fight them all with all that you've got! Donate to charities, adopt pets and do for others what you did for me:D! You can do it, but don't feel that there's some sort of time limit and that you have to do this alone. There are others that will help you.

You've done everything that you can, so don't stress yourself. Just sit back for right now and catch your breath and make modifications as you need to. Make sure that you don't run yourself into the ground because you're going to have to be a pillar of support for your friend and for us as well;)!
 

Silatuyok

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Well, fight them all with all that you've got! Donate to charities, adopt pets and do for others what you did for me:D! You can do it, but don't feel that there's some sort of time limit and that you have to do this alone. There are others that will help you.

You've done everything that you can, so don't stress yourself. Just sit back for right now and catch your breath and make modifications as you need to. Make sure that you don't run yourself into the ground because you're going to have to be a pillar of support for your friend and for us as well;)!

:) Thank you.
 

Phoenixx

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Tired and like I want to burst into tears. Meeting was a living hell. The room was packed with about 500 people or so. Even though I was on the outer part of the room against the wall I couldn't even handle it. I ended up sitting outside of the room for an hour trying to hold back a panic attack. I went back in when it wasn't so full, filled out the paper I needed to, and then power walked back to my dorm. And now I'm here, sitting in the dark, eating chocolate. It's kind of helping.
 
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