Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

S

Silatuyok

Well-known member
I'm home alone tonight listening to my Carpenters album, and the lyrics make me want to cry. Karen sure knew a lot about loneliness, and her outcome only makes it that much sadder.
"Day after day I must face a world of strangers
Where I don't belong, I'm not that strong"
...
 
S

Silatuyok

Well-known member
Agent_Violet said:
getting depressed reading about borderline personality.

obviously borderlines are not fit to be in relationships according to all that i've read and what the doc says. it's a wonder hubby hasn't left yet. he must be a glutton for punishment.
Click to expand...

Agent, are you borderline?? Me too! And I can tell you we are NOT unfit for relationships---that's a load of bull****. It takes a very special and very strong type of person to be able to handle our awesomeness, but it can be done. You just take care of yourself, and not worry so much about what the hubby thinks about it.
 
DeadmanWalking

DeadmanWalking

Well-known member
twiggle said:
I tried to tell my sister today that I think I have a problem with overthinking/worrying and she just said its natural and everyones like that and I'm just being silly. Perhaps its the kind of thing I need to hear, who knows, maybe it IS true, but it doesn't really help that much. To know I'm not alone is comforting only to a certain, restricted degree. I need to know what to do about it.
*keeps looking*
Click to expand...

The method I used for that problem was to let my mind wander onto multiple subjects when I felt that I was thinking of something too much. That way, when I get to thinking about a depressing topic, I already have another ready for use. Of course, the danger to that is that your mind will start to do that without your permission. Another route could be to think of something relaxing when you feel your mind is starting to overload.
 
this_portrait

this_portrait

Well-known member
I love how people who supposedly consider you their "best friend" seem to talk to and hang with everyone BUT you. Tsk tsk. If that's what having a best friend is supposed to be like, then I'd rather have just 20 acquaintances.
 
coyote

coyote

Well-known member
this_portrait said:
I love how people who supposedly consider you their "best friend" seem to talk to and hang with everyone BUT you. Tsk tsk. If that's what having a best friend is supposed to be like, then I'd rather have just 20 acquaintances.
Click to expand...

acquaintances are great

much fewer expectations to live up to
 
A

Agent_Violet

Well-known member
A friend will calm you down and help you walk away from someone who did you wrong.

A BEST friend will carry the bat and skip down the street with you singing, "somebodies gonna get it!!"
 
A

Agent_Violet

Well-known member
Absolutely_Sweet_Marie said:
Agent, are you borderline?? Me too! And I can tell you we are NOT unfit for relationships---that's a load of bull****. It takes a very special and very strong type of person to be able to handle our awesomeness, but it can be done. You just take care of yourself, and not worry so much about what the hubby thinks about it.
Click to expand...

Thank honey:) I know it's tough for him...I'm my own special brand of crazy "awesomeness" lol

It's nice to know I'm not alone...not that I'm happy you're borderline...but you know what I mean:cool:
 
superfluouslyme

superfluouslyme

1
BiWinning said:
I love public restrooms, a particular stall in the girls bathroom states "Voldemort is back"
and near the handle it said "Flush Twice for the Ministry of Magic" :D
Click to expand...

I've always wanted to write something in a stall, but I don't have the guts. And of course, it would be Harry Potter (or Doctor Who) related.
 
MaliceInWickedland

MaliceInWickedland

Well-known member
Great so now my only two best/real friends are pissed at each other because of me. All because my friend was saying s*** about trying to kill herself and wanting to OD on her meds and I immediately freaked out and told my friend about it and she got pissed at her for worrying me like that. Now everything's a total s***storm because of me. Right now I just want to bang my head on my desk over and over again until there's nothing left to bang.
 
DeadmanWalking

DeadmanWalking

Well-known member
MaliceInWickedland said:
Great so now my only two best/real friends are pissed at each other because of me. All because my friend was saying s*** about trying to kill herself and wanting to OD on her meds and I immediately freaked out and told my friend about it and she got pissed at her for worrying me like that. Now everything's a total s***storm because of me. Right now I just want to bang my head on my desk over and over again until there's nothing left to bang.
Click to expand...

You had the right mindset, Malice, but I think the execution just didn't go as planned, so don't feel bad. Maybe you should have looked for a suicide hotline or something similar. Well, I suggest bringing your friends together and telling them that you're sorry and that you just didn't want to lose your friend. However, I think this will resolve itself with time; their anger comes from fear and love, not hostility. Once they have some time apart, they'll come back together. But, just to be on the safe side, be the catalyst for that. I hope what I said made some level of sense and I hope you feel better.
 
F

FriendlessGirl

1
MaliceInWickedland said:
Great so now my only two best/real friends are pissed at each other because of me. All because my friend was saying s*** about trying to kill herself and wanting to OD on her meds and I immediately freaked out and told my friend about it and she got pissed at her for worrying me like that. Now everything's a total s***storm because of me. Right now I just want to bang my head on my desk over and over again until there's nothing left to bang.
Click to expand...

^Oh it sucks when friends fight. I hope your friends stop fighting soon.
 
MaliceInWickedland

MaliceInWickedland

Well-known member
Whaddya know? Little Malice here is having trouble sleeping yet again. Thank you sensitive brain... *Sigh* Well on a lighter note, things with los amigos have finally cooled down so that's one less worry in mind. Thanks for all the advice/concern everyone *steals back desk from Tiercel and continues banging my head for the hell of it* ::p:

FriendlessGirl said:
Yay for you!
My birthday never goes well :( Hope nothing bad happens tomorrow
Click to expand...

Happy early Birthday!! :D
 
this_portrait

this_portrait

Well-known member
I know there are certain things you can't replace, but damn it, I'm at the point where I want as close to a replacement as I can get. :(
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Top