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theslowesthand

theslowesthand

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Endless problems that just won't go away .. too infuriatingly "involved" to resolve .. i feel the rage building.... (YAY!!!)

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Nanita said:
@ Beatrice. Have you read the book "The power of now", by Eckhart Tolle... It was very enlightening and helpful to me, some years ago. Good nighttime reading too
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Still reading that - started a few months ago. Have recently finished his latest book "A New Earth". Only the first read, so hasn't changed anything for me yet, certainly not at the "spiritual" level anyway.
 
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Falkor

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Feeling good :)

Happy with the new song I worked on with a musician :]
YouTube - ‪B.R Productions ft Saskia Bloem - Something‬‏

just thought I'd share with you ^^ (the lyrics is based on sa too, I mostly write about something I can relate to:))

Nanita said:
@ Beatrice. Have you read the book "The power of now", by Eckhart Tolle... It was very enlightening and helpful to me, some years ago. Good nighttime reading too.
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Wow this is funny, I read this books before I go to sleep every night :p, it is so helpful and it is so powerful full of light indeed!~ I think it is a beautiful inspiring book.
 
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matthew_

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I talked to someone on this site who was really upbeat. Made me feel more confident that there are other social phobia sufferers who also have this spark of happiness, but are still trapped within their limitations at the same time.
 
Honda

Honda

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Depression has become something i dont care about anymore... I can control my anger, fear, depression, etc... Better than ever... I worked hard on getting friends, a life and becoming a normal individual in this, imperfect society... And I will prevail or die trying...
 
fitftw

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tired, sick of the heat, sick of the same **** every day. sick of punctuation, sick of school, sick of most people who look at me and make me feel weird inside, sick of people in power who shouldn't be.

Is this all life is? The same **** every day? I don't know how much longer I can take it. Especially when I have to get a real job and do the same **** for the rest of my LIFE.
 
funkyy

funkyy

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i'm a lil upset because i gave in to my cravings for chips. anybody have this problem with food? i cant help myself with snacks....when i feel stressed.
 
funkyy

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but im trying so hard to be slim! i normally gobble up the whole packet of chips in less than a 5 mins.. and once i start eating i end up eating more, taking chocolates, e.t.c to munch
 
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Beatrice

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funkyy said:
i'm a lil upset because i gave in to my cravings for chips. anybody have this problem with food? i cant help myself with snacks....when i feel stressed.
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Yeah, when I'm depressed it's really hard to resist junking out, and I usually do. Honestly, it's one of the few things that makes me feel better for a bit, which is bad. I don't eat tons of junk, but whatever I DO eat is usually unhealthy. It gives you a boost of feel-good chemicals, as soon as the food hits your mouth. Healthy food just doesn't do that. I don't know why it works that way.

I've been eating terribly lately and I'm mad at myself for it. I was doing so well diet-wise. But now I've hit a rough patch. I just went downhill.
 
simpsons2007

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funkyy said:
i'm a lil upset because i gave in to my cravings for chips. anybody have this problem with food? i cant help myself with snacks....when i feel stressed.
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Yes I have the same cravings for crisps and junk food when I feel depressed. I would just sit down and eat my way through 12+ packs of crisps a night. It makes me feel good while I'm eating them but after I feel disgusted with myself for eat all that cr*p.
 
theslowesthand

theslowesthand

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IGotSeoul said:
“To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering, one must not love. But then, one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer; not to love is to suffer; to suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy, then, is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be happy, one must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness”
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DespairSoul said:
I gotSeoul very well said u have a lot of true here. I know this but anyway i don't know what to do with mine feelings is so damn hard...i can't go all the time in same circles coz is like self-destruction for me if i love and later i lose love i feel so bad...so crap and all the time mine head play me film which happiness i have been lost....so only one choice is suffer with out love and don't have any memories which keep me suffering too coz i'm longing for love...or or being in love and have this memories in mine head what keep me suffering too...so what is better?Both isn't much cheerful. I want close mine feelings into the box and throw them away if i could this would be great. Some people don't love so deeply they love but they can fast go over it i know this. No where is the love equal always love some person more in relationship and one less. The one who love more suffer more. The one who is careless more natural go over it well. Everyone feel different, love different...I don't know how to feel well with out love or with losing love. I think i will never find it out:/ and on the end i will be in empty flat alone coz i was to much scared of the same pain! Thank u for your post u said it so well and is all of it true
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This reminds of some things i read just the other day, in a book called "The Power of the Now". I bookmarked the page with a biscuit packet, as router "bombed-out" just as i was about to do this an hour/so ago! (was it telling me not to do this post? who knows, i'll just barge ahead anyway).
If i may quote some excerpts...
Power of the Now said:
"Until you access the consciousness frequency of presence, all relationships, and in particular intimate ones, are deeply flawed and ultimately dysfunctional ... It seems most "love relationships" become love/hate before long ... if you could elimanate the negative or destructive cycles, then all would be perfect ... this is not possible. The polarities are mutually interdependent. You cannot have one without other ... Both are different aspects of same dysfunction ... what are commnoly called "romantic relationships", not "true love" which has no oppsoite as arises from beyong ones mind"
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Coyote was on to it when he said said:
This ---> or simply accept suffering .. just as you accept love .. two sides of the same coin in your pocket.
...He hit the button on the nail
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