Wow. I'm the 13th poster so I find it a little surprising that I am only the second woman to reply to this thread.
To be blunt and possibly offend some people, I must confess that there is a type of male virgin I don't like and sadly, I have met more than a few so it's not like I'm stereotyping for the hell of it. There are those who think of their virginity as this huge massive gift that any woman should be swimming around in her own tears thanking him for. I have personally never been with this kind but I have been around a few of them in social situations and heard them talk about how giving it up for the right woman will solve all their problems and finally make them happy. There is absolutely nothing wrong with waiting around for the right one, whether it takes 20, 40, 50 years but when the moment finally comes, don't treat her like she has this DUTY to realise what a sacrifice you are making for her. If it really is such a sacrifice to lose it, then maybe you would be happier if you keep it. If she really is the right one for you and she feels the same about you (whether she is a virgin or not) then surely the real gift is each other's company. You should be able to see each other as equals no matter who has what level of experience. Remember, she neither asked nor expected you to wait for her to come along and if she really is a worthwhile as you believe, the fact that you are a virgin (or not) will be no more than a little blip at the back of her mind compared with how cool she thinks your personality is. (This all probably applies to chick virgins too).
Right, that aside. It does not really matter to me whether a guy is a virgin or not. Most guys I know (including a few who have responded to these sorts of SPW threads) seem to think that practice makes perfect and the best way to please someone is to go in with a game plan. Not true at all (at least in my case). Whether I am with a virgin or not, I know more or less what I want and I am more than capable of asking for it. It's a cliche but what women really want is a man who will listen and respond to what they hear. This applies to all aspects, including the bedroom, in which case, a virgin should be just as capable as anyone else.