I think I would. I tend to be overly understandable and lenient and patient... to the extent that I usually end up being really hurt by the other person because I end up getting walked all over... but I always always give people the benefit of the doubt.... even when it's obvious that I should have stopped ages ago. So yea... I would definitely give them a chance, If I felt love there. I am the type of person that can love unconditionally. That means if you win me over... despite your problems or difficulties or whatever.... I will be extremely loyal to you... through good times and bad as they say. I am suffering this moment in fact, because of that very reason. My bf said to me just today that he didn't even know whether or not he still loves me. And I know rationally that he is in no position in his life to be in a relationship. He even told me... wait around if you want or see you in another life... as in he doesn't care what I do and I told him I wanted him in this life, not another one and that I do still love him... even if he doesn't know if he loves me anymore and I know.. I am the one in the end that is hurting myself even more than he could ever hurt me... by being too stupid to know when to stop, let go, and move on... Not that I am saying that dating a person with SA would make me stupid! Not at all! I just mean... I would give anyone a chance despite their issues... even if I know it's at a risk of being hurt in the end. It's just how I am. If that made any sense at all *sigh*