ive clicked 18, but to be honest i couldnt care less, theres more to life than sex! and i should know, cause ive ive got 3 litres of the stuff in the fridge
I wonder if anyone at Social Phobia World has fallen in love with a fellow user? I imagine so, considering that this site is quite large.
I have been single all my current life. When it does happen it will be a really big
deal for me. I worry I will get disappointed however as all the tension will have lead up for
so long.
Well time will tell I guess
Just do yourself a favour though and don't go for the first person who comes along just because they're there. It leads to nothing but trouble
So true- this is basically what I did.
I voted 19, that's when I got involved with my ex-husband. I was severely depressed and really wasn't ready(though didn't realize it), but I went along with him because he was into me, and I thought he was a decent guy, and convinced myself that I felt the same about him- plus I guess I kind of knew that there was something "off" about me and thought that I "should" be feeling that way and that probably no one better would come along for me as almost no one had given me any attention like that up to that point (19 feels old when you have zero experience- I did have a boyfriend in high school, but we were never really anything more than best friends, we barely even held hands).
Years later when I came out of my depression, I realized that I didn't even like him, but now I still have to deal with him since we share children. But I don't regret anything that happened, I wouldn't dream of trading my kids- even if it meant not having to deal with his selfish, bullying ways.
Never had one, now in my 32nd year. I know the reasons. I was the late, very late physical bloomer type (mistaken for 14 at age 20 etc) and so was no girls physical type - nobody was physically attracted to me during that crucial period of teens through to middle 20s, and it was excruciating watching others click together and share intimacy whilst you were the one felt 'sorry for' (I hated being felt sorry for). No girls ever showed signs of interest in me, ever; no flirting, smiles, no flicks of hair or invitations to parties - nothing. I don't know of many guys that haven't had girls show signs of interest in them, even if they didn't take it up, it would be a massive confidence boost. It cut me up as would expect, and I never really got over it. It's probably the hardest thing for a guy - to accept women see him as a genetic miscreant.
Not given up hope, but I know I'm damaged goods forever. A 32 year old man with no experience is pitied on at the most mildest, you can't change peoples way of thinking negative like that. People want to know what you've been doing, and even question your orientation and development (is he gay? does he like children or something? is he asexual? is he retarded?). I can't say to a girl "I was treated badly by women in my past" can I? They'll just wipe you off. I'm not a virgin, I payed for an escort at 26 and no regret using such services again. I wouldn't want to be the aged guy (40+) with 0 sexual contact under his belt.