Don't bombard her with calls if she's still worked up over what happened, maybe just send a message letting her know if she wants to talk about it then you're there for her.
Temper temper....come on, the guy is upset/confused and you bash him.What the hell? What kind of man are you? The girl you love is obviously in terrible pain and she's about to destroy her life and it will be something that she will ...Thanks.
I am sorry but you sound confused. He is on-line dating the girl.I don't even think I was hard enough on him. His age is irrelevant. When you're sleeping with girls...
I've been on this forum for a week and everyone is so soft. I had to step up and do what others cannot do.
It's a support forum.
Rexus, take a breather, hon. Since you're on meds I assume that you have been seeing a therapist or a doctor. Maybe you ought to make yourself an appointment and let him or her know how you've been feeling lately, and that you've been off your medication. Does your doctor know that you've been off your medication and has he or she specifically told you to stop taking your meds?
I really hope that venting here helps, but considering your mental health issues, you should probably try not to worry too much about this girl. Yes, I know how harsh that sounds, but if you can't handle worrying about her (both mentally and physically) - if it makes you worse, then there isn't much you can do to help her. If you're in such a bad state and can't help yourself then you won't be helping her anytime soon. Maybe you ought to suggest that she seek professional help as well because she seems to be having a really rough time.
Read again. He said he would get drunk and sleep with a random girl. When you write things like that, you're probably sexually active.
He is not responsible for her choices. He canSometimes in life you need to pay the price for what you do. I've been on this forum for a week and everyone is so soft...
That is not what I said you are trying to put words in my mouth.
I said that they had never met in person and probably not have had sex.
I am talking about them only because of their relationship but you insist
to bring everything else into this. For arguments sake I am assuming.
Also, he is upset just like the girl was in saying things like "I am just going
to go sleep with a random person". Now, those are just words to me.
We know not of what action has been taken yet.
He is not responsible for her choices. He can
advice her and beg her but if she does what it is she says then those are her
own decisions. Seems like you are blaming him for something that has not or may not happen.
Also may I add. How does this reflect on her. She gets pissed and threatens
to act like a tramp and sleep around. Does she at all respect him?
Weren't they on-line dating?
To the OP.
Just relax and let things simmer down. I can only imagine how hard this
must be for you.