What kinds of people are you attracted to?

Pacific_Loner

Pirate from the North Pole
I would say I like shy, cute artistic nice guys but if I look back at my ex boyfriends I would say I have no idea what I'm looking for.
 
... I guess it's because I'm not so good at "small chat" and I like getting to know people deep down - people just interest me :)

Small chat, very hard. Very hard to keep going.
Person: How are you?
Me: Fine.
What happens after that? All words reserved in the depths of the mind are not there.

Locked.
 

coyote

Well-known member
Small chat, very hard. Very hard to keep going.
Person: How are you?
Me: Fine.
What happens after that? All words reserved in the depths of the mind are not there.

Locked.

You just gotta open it up more.

Have something prepared to lead off with other than "Fine."

Person: How are you?
Me: Fine. Wanna see my collection of Bigfoot scat?

Then just have fun with wherever it goes!
 

NathanielWingatePeaslee

Iä! Iä! Cthulhu fhtagn!
Staff member
Coyote is right. Having a few pre-designated topics to rattle off about can be immensely useful. It really doesn't so much matter what you're talking about as long as you're still talking. Most of human communication isn't in the actual words we use anyway--they're more of an excuse than anything.



My head is full of moo beasts.
 
You just gotta open it up more.

Have something prepared to lead off with other than "Fine."

Person: How are you?
Me: Fine. Wanna see my collection of Bigfoot scat?

Then just have fun with wherever it goes!

Right, why worry about it.

Person: How's it going?
Me: Not much .... Oh great. Can't you stick with What's up?

Partly my problem is scripting. I have to throw the scripts out.
 

NathanielWingatePeaslee

Iä! Iä! Cthulhu fhtagn!
Staff member
Do you speak the Longhorn or Angus moo?
Most everything I did today was in some way about the moo beasties. And I did quite a bit. And it will be so for the next few days.

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Tiercel

Well-known member
30 there is less than 3 years old, and probably at least 1800 pounds already. He's very sweet and gentle though. I was sitting down cross legged earlier today, talking to him and rubbing his face.


I still do that sometimes. ::p:

So that's how you tenderize meat down in- wherever it is that you're from. ;)
 
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