What is the most precious thing you lost due to SA

[CursedSoul]

h: I lost my love life, I mean I didn't even get near it....:bigsmile:

 

[dmsteyn]

I lost many opportunities to meet interesting people. Also, the love of my life. :sad:

 

[Syllogu]

Friends n ****

 

[Lonely_Writer]

I've lost my ability to connect and trust. But I think that it can be found. It's just a matter of knowing where to look.

 

[Hellhound]

I fear losing the ones I love.

 

[Klonoa]

Became horribly paranoid to betrayal.

Also lost many oportunities to meet people.

 

[ImNotMyIllness]

To be natural and in the moment with people.

 

[Mattsquito]

My charm. I used to be very laid-back and mellow. I'm still mellow, but now I'm overanalyzing even the smallest of interactions to bits in my head and it isn't an attractive habit.

 

[WishingICould]

To form relationships.

 

[Section_31]

friendships. Not having my own guy friends.

Jobs in the past as well. Id get too scared and leave.

 

[GraybeardGhost]

Freedom. I used to go out every day, work, hang with friends, date, etc. Thanks to SA, I am now a virtual prisoner in my own home, unable to do any of the things I once enjoyed.

 

[InvisaLady]

One word - Dan.

 

[Lamb]

The ability to focus and stay motivated..cheerful.

 

[spearhunter]

my life. several opportunities in my life past away due to SA

 

[Kiwong]

The feeling of being at peace

 

[DeadmanWalking]

I lost the woman that I honestly felt, for the first time, love for. I lost many chances at friendships and relationships. I've lost time I could spend driving and getting a job and becoming independent. But, most importantly, I've lost my peace of mind. I can't go anywhere without wondering what everyone thinks of me and feeling anxious and uncomfortable.

 

[cocorose]

My life.. and everything in it.

 

[FallenFeathers]

My Childhood maybe.

 

[Lea]

This question seems to me not correct - how can you loose something you never had, or if you had it and lost it later,that's life,we can't have one thing for the whole life, everything changes.I feel that whatever happens to us,good or bad,is how it's supposed to be,we get what our destiny is,it's not that we were supposed to get something what we consider as "better",it's only our evaluation and judgment. People in life don't get everything they want,if they did it would probably cause havoc. We get what we get,that's it.What we don't get,we weren't supposed to..Life has only one track.

 

[BlueDays]

I lost my self-confidence. :sad:

Due to my SA starting around 9 years of age, I lost the healthy confidence I had in myself up until that point.

Well come to think of it, I did not lose it. The people who stole my personality from me, crushed it to dust.