what's wrong with these people....seriously...
What comment do you hate the most?
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what's wrong with these people....seriously...
bigrob
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I get that sometimes too. In my mind I'm just sitting there doing nothing.
The schizoid in me causes me to quite often have a blank look on my face. "Normal" people wear their emotions on their sleeve on way or another. Being constantly poker faced makes people nervous because they can't read me to see what emotional state I am in, even though quite often they just assume anger. I have no idea why they assume anger....I guess because I'm a big tough looking guy.
indeep
Member
I dislike being winked at
can't stand being socially coached
"there you go" when I do "stand up for myself"
"hold your head up"
my favorite of all time-"you were in your patented daze again"
love the originality and feel kind of proud because it is true
I go somewhere else rather often
p.s. hello- I have not introduced myself here trying to find the words
can't stand being socially coached
"there you go" when I do "stand up for myself"
"hold your head up"
my favorite of all time-"you were in your patented daze again"
love the originality and feel kind of proud because it is true
I go somewhere else rather often
p.s. hello- I have not introduced myself here trying to find the words
SoulSeeker
Banned
'You need to start living'
If only they knew the pain inside of my head. Im so complicated.
If only they knew the pain inside of my head. Im so complicated.
recluse
Well-known member
I always get that comment from my parents but not from anyone else! Other people have said things in the past like ''why are you so shy?!''.....My parents are like in denial that there's something wrong with me.
When i am depressed for instance, to my parents it's simply that i am tired and need more sleep.
SilentRain
Member
This one is mine aswell. I get different variations of it too like someone will say, "This girl won't shut up." and everyone laughs. "This girl is the life of the party." "You're a chatterbox." and etc.
Obviously making fun of how I barely even breathe at a social gathering. :
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boosh
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yeah, i get that from my parents as well. they start blaming it on me, saying if i went to bed earlier everything would be fine. that's my mom's most favourable excuse. she was like "well everyone gets shy once in a while" -_-
AimeeSP
Well-known member
''Oh, you're just shy.'' ..Yeah, that -must- be it. I'm totally overreacting. >:c
''So, what job/education do you follow lately?'' None, because I'm too terrified to do so, and thank you for ripping that wound right open.
''Just come to the party, you'll like it a few minutes in.'' No. No, I won't.
But it are the subtle- and/or nonverbal comments that sting the most. :c
''So, what job/education do you follow lately?'' None, because I'm too terrified to do so, and thank you for ripping that wound right open.
''Just come to the party, you'll like it a few minutes in.'' No. No, I won't.
But it are the subtle- and/or nonverbal comments that sting the most. :c
cryfreedom57
Member
"Why don't you smile more? You're so pretty when you smile." It's especially irritating when it comes from strange men. Look douche, I didn't ask for your opinion and I don't tailor my behavior to suit your desires. Go be creepy somewhere else.
"Why are you so angry/serious/upset?" I wasn't in a bad mood before you started talking to me. How much you wanna bet correlation equals causation?
"What's wrong?" followed by "You know what you should do? (Insert unsolicited and useless advice here)" Oh hi, are you secretly a therapist? Didn't think so. STFU.
"Why are you so angry/serious/upset?" I wasn't in a bad mood before you started talking to me. How much you wanna bet correlation equals causation?
"What's wrong?" followed by "You know what you should do? (Insert unsolicited and useless advice here)" Oh hi, are you secretly a therapist? Didn't think so. STFU.
bigrob
Well-known member
I get these two ALOT.
As a schizoid I just don't show emotion, especially facial expressions. I can be sitting there minding my own business thinking of absolutely nothing (or absolutely everything if having a ADD moment!) and get accused of being angry about something.
In fact I make people uneasy period. Subconsciously people read others faces as a means to base their own reaction...since I'm blank that makes me unreadable thus makes people uneasy around me. That's probably why I've always been described as "odd".
you should play poker
ok no kidding, the comment I hate the most is every one about the fact I'm silent, quiet, shy, upset, not-on-my-ease, not relaxed, odd. By the way there are very few unexpected comments from people accidentally around me that I like.
SlanGodhand
Active member
Oh man, i get those "why do you talk so much" ones all the time, i swear.
Reinventing
Member
Frequently in conversation I'll ask a question to which the answer seems obvious but I'm just looking for clarity (to be sure). Usually the response to this is some patronising 'wit' to score a few humour points at my expense. These comments wear at me the most.
