well someone has to be ''selective'' and ''shallow''. Why be like blokes? they have sex with, not everyone, i mean everything with pulse. I'm not saying all blokes are like that but i've just met that kind of types.
Men who do a lot of women are awesome, women who do a lot of men are sluts. Never understood this.
On the other hand guys who cant get a girlfriend or choose to not sleep around are wankers,gay, while girls are a saint and respectable.
True! What weird double standards we have.
I'm curious as to where this standard originated in the first place. Is this a worldwide thing or just an American thing? Also why do people keep saying "Just buy a prostitute" on here? Isn't that still against the law? lol.
I'm not going to commit crimes just to get laid
I'm curious as to where this standard originated in the first place. Is this a worldwide thing or just an American thing? Also why do people keep saying "Just buy a prostitute" on here? Isn't that still against the law? I'm not going to commit crimes just to get laid lol.
It's all about general 'normal' standards I think. What is normal? There are many different lifestyle choices, general lifestyles, hobbies and ways of life lead that there is no normal to be honest. What one person considers to be normal, another may totally disagree. I know it's hard to do, but try to focus on loving your self, self love (not selfishness) and then you'd be comfortable with yourself regardless of the experiences you've had in life. Nothing lasts forever.
And I wouldn't either...meaningless sex isn't worth it.
I'm sure there's many people who find it hard to tell the difference between love and infatuation.
I agree, it's worthless. Waiting until you find an individual that you care for, and they care for you.
At the beginning there usually is no difference.
For you, of course, but that ought to go without saying. The waiting part is not going to work. If you wait, and eventually find someone you care about, chances are -very- high she won't care at all about you.
Im a virgin too. This is the first time I have admitted itbut I have lied to friends about it. Im 22 and I have serious problems with the ladies. I get a good bit of attention from girs and when it comes too phsical contact I just run away. Its mad. I am ashamed of my body as I think I am too skinny. My worst experience was when I was on hollidays a few years ago with my mates for the first time and when they all took their tops off Muscles galore etc... and My confidence just went so low and I have never been the same again. This has led to anxiety problems and because I dont go out I dont get the opportunity to do the business :
: and I just want to get it over a done with and I would feel far more confident.Maybe I just have to find a girl that doesnt ****e on to other girls about me.
But it is torture being a male virgin at 22 ::
Also, the chances are that not everybody you come into contact with, or have a relationship won't care about you. There are bound to be a few people at least that come and go who do care for you, or have at a certain point in time.