This might sound like a weird post but... Do guys Like virgins and why?

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AGR

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I wouldnt care if she was or not,as long as she was a good girl,but I think some guys may like as a trophy or the be the only guy she was before or is religious,they also may not like because of the inexperience,I think that is pretty much all there is to it.
 
talisman

talisman

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Well if you're talking about guys in general, then there does seem to be something satisfying about being a girl's first sexual partner. Guys do tend to boast about it. Maybe its to do with going where no other guy's been before...Must be the explorer in ever man trying to get out. lol

Personally for me (as a guy) a female virgin is appealing because I'm also a virgin, but at my age it's getting a bit unrealistic to find one.
 
BlackPuma

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Well, I can't say for certain until the moment comes, but I find the prospect of the first time being with someone whom is unexperienced as well a comforting thought.

That way you're on the same page, and you can discover the do's and don't's together. I'd be drastically more uncomfortable with someone whom would have a head start.

But that's just me of course.
 
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Kinetik

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Well I've only been with a couple of women, both of whom had several partners before me, so I'm not sure about this. For some guys it may indeed be an achievement to take someone's virginity - but only because these types of guys are usually repulsed by promiscuous women. That's an insecurity on their part, and personally I think it's a bit silly to prefer chaste women just because they're viewed as 'unspoiled' or what have you. I guess that's where the whole 'slut' term comes into play. In my view, it's a word tossed around by jealous men who can't bear the thought of not being a woman's only one.

I suppose when I think of a virgin I envision her being nervous and unsure which I imagine would make me feel guilty/turned off more than anything else. A lot depends on her attitude and willingness though, and those traits are very different in different people.
 
JesseJay

JesseJay

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LOL @ tightness factor. Even a woman who has had a few can still have that factor if she works out.. Just saying.

Some guys like being the girl's first, Some stay away from virgins because of marriage waiting and church stuff and not to mention(This is not said badly) but most virgins get clingy after losing it to someone especially if they love the person.
 
coyote

coyote

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If I were going skiing for the weekend, I'd prefer to take someone who had some experience.

I wouldn't want to spend the whole time on the bunny slope.
 
NathanielWingatePeaslee

NathanielWingatePeaslee

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Kinetik said:
these types of guys are usually repulsed by promiscuous women. That's an insecurity on their part, and personally I think it's a bit silly to prefer chaste women just because they're viewed as 'unspoiled' or what have you. I guess that's where the whole 'slut' term comes into play. In my view, it's a word tossed around by jealous men who can't bear the thought of not being a woman's only one.
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I agree. These sort of guys also typically have a limited knowledge and understanding of women anyway.

Speaking for myself, I much prefer virgins for a different reason. The dark gods are always more pleased when I sacrifice virgins to them.
 
GoBlue72

GoBlue72

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JesseJay said:
but most virgins get clingy after losing it to someone especially if they love the person.
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What's that saying? "You always remember your first." I think that can be true sometimes. I can see both sides of guys wanting or not wanting a virgin, depending on their mindset and own level of experience. Some virgins want other virgins to be on an even playing field, some people say two virgins can be awkward, but it could also be great learning things together.

On the other side, I could see more experienced guys wanting to "teach" their partner things, being the first one to do so. Or maybe feeling powerful by having more experience than the girl. Other guys want an experienced girl to teach THEM things, or just feel they are more comfortable with sex than a virgin might be.
 
Dronee

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I think it's great... you know. I'm old school and I believe in the marriage before sex thing. I think there's the.. I'm not sure what you'd call it. Like both the man and the woman are virgins. They're exploring something beautiful together. For the very first time... I've chosen to love you and commit to you. I believe in you.. etc.

But maybe I'm just silly ahaha
 
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OneOh1

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Dronee said:
I think it's great... you know. I'm old school and I believe in the marriage before sex thing. I think there's the.. I'm not sure what you'd call it. Like both the man and the woman are virgins. They're exploring something beautiful together. For the very first time... I've chosen to love you and commit to you. I believe in you.. etc.

But maybe I'm just silly ahaha
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If you lived in this town, good luck finding a virgin
 
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schist

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Everyone has to lose their virginity sometime. I don't give a rat's ass if it's not an "enjoyable experience" for me, I'll at least try and make their first time as comfortable as possible for them. After all, that's how a real man's attitude should be.
 
pinkputter

pinkputter

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coyote said:
If I were going skiing for the weekend, I'd prefer to take someone who had some experience.

I wouldn't want to spend the whole time on the bunny slope.
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There's more to a person than just experience in one aspect of life. (going along w/ your skiing analogy)...if you take some one skiing, there's probably more reasons than them just being good skiiers for why you take them skiing. Like, they make the whole experience more enjoyable by just being who they are? That's what I would want a guy I'm dating to say. Then he'd just be using me for a trait or talent. I wouldn't want that. Sure, it's a bonus. But not why you take them.
 
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