Take care of me

[Lonelykitsune]

Im not really looking for a partner or anything now cos of SA and the fact im only 16 but im sure if i ever do,ill be too clingy.Im clingy now,my parents do everything involving social stuff for me.Im way too clingy with my only friend,and get all worried when she doesent answr my texts straight away.

I dont want to be clingy and useless,its just,well,i dunno.Im often told i have a lack of common sense.I just want someone to do all the social stuff for or with me,which is really selfish.

 

[Jesushasomeoneforme]

If I like the sweet girl she can be clingy. I will have another girlfriend!

 

[da_illest101]

I'd like an older girl to take care of me... Put an arm around me when i'm cold... clear things up for me in a patient manner, when i'm freaking out... Make me really feel ashamed if i do something wrong... Pamper me with gifts, take me out for social activities... make me become like her and restore my self esteem and my pride... P.S I'm a guy, so dont beat me up cos it's frightfully cheesy... This is a place to vent so here i am......

i would love to have a woman like that

 

[Richey]

i have a friend who doesn't like the clingy hugs n kisses aspect of a relationship and i just find that really odd when people say that, i hear it alot but personally i remember my first(and only) girlfriend and i were really clingy and would kiss and hug etc all the time and its a wonderful warm and fuzzy feeling that you can't describe at all but its far better then just being a couple on a friends basis with no spark ...but perhaps its the start of a relationship when its really intense, the whole clingy thing probably fades off over time..but personally i liked the clingy aspect of it. we were both like that. its like i dont understand couples who just get naked and shag and that's it, i much prefer the playfulness cozey side of it.

hmmm, perhaps i'm getting the terminology wrong, clingy in terms of being together all the time? and following each other around, yeh i like the hugs n kisses side but we stay independent and have our own lives as well and don't need to be sitting together all the time i suppose....i wouldn't mind the clingyness in private but around people all the time i'm not so sure..

 

[AimeeSP]

I would love that so much. I crave the feeling of feeling safe and protected. I think i've said it somewhere else on this site but during my childhood i never felt safe. So i mostly definitly would love that in a man.

 

[lyricalliaisons]

Definitely not. I don't want anyone to "take care of me." I'm not a child. What I would love, is to be able to fully take care of myself the way adults are supposed to, but I don't know if that will ever happen.

I do, however, want someone who will understand me & maybe help me at times when I need it (emotional support, etc.). But helping is not at all the same as taking care of.

 

[shore_of_glass]

I think I haven't hugged anyone for some years now....

 

[Pookah]

I think I would feel bad. I like equality.

 

[Tangent]

I would want my partner and myself to care for each other equally. Lopsided relationships become burdensome after a while.

 

[Lost Girl]

Do any of you want partners who will "take care of you"?and I don't mean giving you money and gifts that stuff doesnt mean anything to me
I mean you just want someone give you a lot attention and you feel like their your best friend
someone who just makes you feel protected/safe someone who doenst mind you clinging to them
they like it

I'm lucky enough to have someone who does take care of me...well, we take care of each other. We both have our problems. We both are there for each other 100%. I couldn't be with someone who didn't go out of their way to support me, as I go out of my way to support the people I love. I won't accept anything less, and if I feel like my partner isn't as 'there' for me as I want him to be, then I pull him right up and I expect him to do the same to me.

Ooh I sound so hard-core, ha!

 

[illuminationSP]

Yeah, exactly that. I want someone who will cling to me, basically, since I cling. Not every girl finds this acceptable, but I'm sure there are some who wouldn't mind. I want to be mutually inseparable.

 

[illuminationSP]

Maybe I also want to be cared for in a motherly way, to fill some type of void. That sounds creepy.

 

[BlueDays]

...............

 

[illuminationSP]

My one and only ex wanted a mother substitute. That can turn some girls off, especially in the bedroom!::

lol Yuck, stop :: Not like that.

 

[Kat]

Yeah, it’s got to work both ways, I think being too clingy can be a little smothering.

 

[SickCycleCarousel]

Yeah...It would definitely be nice to have someone like that. Seems a bit silly for me to want something like that...but...I guess I can dream, can't I? =\

 

[anomicdeer]

Yeah....
I do.

 

[diesel]

i think most people , including myself , would like someone to cling to in a way . but in saying that i dont think i ever will have someone and i also want to be able to look after myself because i believe you can nly truly count on one person and thats yourself .

 

[LazyHermitCrab]

that's how a partner should be imo

 

[Hadron]

No!

Clingy people are a huge turn off for me.