i am 5 foot 6 tall and im 27 so im definitely not going to ever grow any taller. height has ALWAYS been a major self conscious thing for me.. most people are a few inches taller than me, i am slagged and jeered sometime in work about it. i have always been self conscious about it and also its one of the main reasons i have never had a girlfriend too. part why i dont go out and part why i have had depression in my life a few times. see guys that are tall are kinda looked upon as figures of authority or power or more as a leader etc. its most likely a tall man will become a manager than a short man. you know. also im assuming girls prefer tall men to make them feel protected or something. i don't know. so whats the point in me living... im a walking disease... i really feel like joining the 27 club to be honest. its my physical body i hate most. i feel like taking my life. though im not going to, im just saying i feel like it. im not looking for attention, im not looking for sympathy because i don't want any, DON'T give me any. i just wrote this to vent my frustration, im unhappy. i just wanted to know if i am on my own. any other guys around same height same problems, with height making you lack confidence big time
it's unfortunate but society likes to ridicule short guys, fat people etc, because they get told that they are not ideal. I don't like tall guys for one, they scare me and it seems they tower over me and it makes facing them almost impossible, not to mention it seems like they are looking down on me. I'm 5 foot 5ish and I personally don't like guys several inches taller for the above reasons.
I know short guys, nothing wrong with them, except ones with short guy syndrom, which really is in the head.
So do you want to become a manager? It's possible you know, if you have the skills, qualifications and personality suited to the position. You're really telling me that if you fit the specs, they won't hire you cause you're short?
Also I actually see alot of short guys with girlfriends and wives, so that proves your point wrong.
Also it is true, it's all in the attitude. You'll have to find your own way of accepting that as a part of yourself. I had my features made fun of growing up, but I no longer care much as overcoming my anixety is my no. 1 priority. Make jokes when people make fun of you, you can exaggerate and go along with the jokes. I think the main reason people do that is that they know it affects you, and gives em ego boosts. Once it backfires and it doesn't shake you, what hte hell is the point? If all fails i'm sure there are qualities about other people that aren't ideal, after all, no one's perfect. If you fire back an insult everytime they insult you, they'll soon learn to stop. I once made fun of someone at school, they shouted something about me at the top of their voice and stared right at me, I was humiliated and never ever did that again.