Post your random thoughts/feelings etc
- Thread starter Remus
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Okay, I'll bite. So coyote making dirty jokes is inappropriate, but talking about banned/unbanned/de-banned users and the moderators (where the moderators can see you) isn't? Many times you have talked about users in the past, and I find that inappropriate and a little stalkery. And yes, I probably spelled 'stalkery' wrong because it isn't even a word.
hoddesdon
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Wow.
Well, as I mentioned before, I have a really good memory. I am amazed at some of the trivia I remember. In order to talk about things, it is necessary to remember them in the first place.
No, you have not spelt "stalkery" wrong. It is colloquial, but that would be the obvious way to spell it. I take it you are referring to the earlier discussion about the spelling of "synecdoche". It turned out that I was the one who had made the mistake.
As for talking about users in the past, I was not aware that there was an issue. There was a ongoing dispute with someone for a while, which has come to an end, if that is what you are referring to.
In my own mind it is positive to say that someone's banning had been reversed. The comment I made about the moderator in question was also positive, I thought (yes, in a bit of a back-handed way).
Yes, I do think that dirty jokes are inappropriate from anyone.
What you should do is make a complaint. Click the exclamation icon in the user details box in the left margin.
MsBuzzkillington
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I hate when you have a crush on someone and they don't want to have anything to do with you. I hate when it's just someone you have seen online. I guess it's not really, a real crush. But it's more of a seeing their posts a lot and really enjoying them as a person and wanting to get to know them better.
It sucks putting yourself out there and trying to make the first step. It sucks when you get rejected. It sucks when they talk to many other people but you.
I wish I didn't care so much.
It sucks putting yourself out there and trying to make the first step. It sucks when you get rejected. It sucks when they talk to many other people but you.
I wish I didn't care so much.
Rembrandt Broam
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LOL!
Wouldn't people in your area have a midwest accent? That's a lovely accent. Then again, I think you all sound so cute with those accents you have.
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Beatrice
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LOL!
Wouldn't people in your area have a midwest accent? That's a lovely accent. Then again, I think you all sound so cute with those accents you have.
Haha, you mean Americans? Well, I think the same of Brits
EvilFlyingCow
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Random thoughts: We are all the same person. Time has no meaning. I have been you before, and you have been me.
There is only one dreamer dreaming the same dream over and over, each time taking a different part. When he has taken all the parts, the dream will be over.
Of course I am alone in the dream: it is a dream of separation.
Everyone I see in the dream is someone I have been. Can I forgive my past? If not, the dream continues.
There is only one dreamer dreaming the same dream over and over, each time taking a different part. When he has taken all the parts, the dream will be over.
Of course I am alone in the dream: it is a dream of separation.
Everyone I see in the dream is someone I have been. Can I forgive my past? If not, the dream continues.
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Beatrice
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"The amount of self-hatred and shame attached to believing that there is something fundamentally wrong with your body and the resulting issues from that kind of thinking can lead to a deep seeded and long history of mental or behavioral issues."
A quote from a blog I randomly happened to come across. I like it and I agree. I'm doing everything I can to realize this truth..... That different body types, different physical appearances are FINE and NORMAL.
It's so hard. It really is.
A quote from a blog I randomly happened to come across. I like it and I agree. I'm doing everything I can to realize this truth..... That different body types, different physical appearances are FINE and NORMAL.
It's so hard. It really is.
Deus_Ex_Lemur
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YES. You just gotta keep finding these things. Changing your perceptions and thoughts is a long process just got to keep challenging and doing it. The three C's, Catch the thought, Challenge the thought, Change the thought. It's HARD. Yes. Esp for a lazy brain like me.
Looking at the good side of the coin as opposed to JUST focusing on the negative is important. We all have great things about us, and things can be far worse. Our eyes have been conditioned through our disorders/issues to focus/see the bad - and amplify the bad.
This is how I DID accept my ears... but it's a process, when self-confidence/esteem is low OR I set myself apart from social interactions, I can slip back... but knowing is half the battle. GI Joeeeee.
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Beatrice
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Groovy and Alphasocket were banned???
Or am I just looking at old posts........
Hm. I feel sad.
I think I rely on this site A LITTLE TOO MUCH for company..... it's what I look forward to every day and I've honestly felt less alone coming on here. I know it's not exactly healthy but being without it.... I'd feel so lonely. This place makes me feel better.
Aw, darnit, I'm getting all teary-eyed now... meh....
Or am I just looking at old posts........
Hm. I feel sad.
I think I rely on this site A LITTLE TOO MUCH for company..... it's what I look forward to every day and I've honestly felt less alone coming on here. I know it's not exactly healthy but being without it.... I'd feel so lonely. This place makes me feel better.
Aw, darnit, I'm getting all teary-eyed now... meh....
dean01
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feeling.. ok.
thinking.. what am i supposed to say when some asks about my llness?
do i tell them i have social anxiety or social phobia ? i think anxiety doesnt sound as scary as phobia.
do i tell them i have bdd, ocd, hh, psychosis, paranoid delusions, thoughts of self harm, manic episodes, depressed episodes blah blah blah. or do i keep it to myself and say nothing?
am i inflicting myself upon people who if they new the truth would probably run a mile or am i doing the right thing? it doesnt feel right, it feels like i dont belong in society.hmmmm
o and i talk to myself haha
thinking.. what am i supposed to say when some asks about my llness?
do i tell them i have social anxiety or social phobia ? i think anxiety doesnt sound as scary as phobia.
do i tell them i have bdd, ocd, hh, psychosis, paranoid delusions, thoughts of self harm, manic episodes, depressed episodes blah blah blah. or do i keep it to myself and say nothing?
am i inflicting myself upon people who if they new the truth would probably run a mile or am i doing the right thing? it doesnt feel right, it feels like i dont belong in society.hmmmm
o and i talk to myself haha
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Beatrice
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I wish I had a film editing program.
Lemur, where are you?
Lemur, where are you?
In Diamonds, too. ;3
Deus_Ex_Lemur
Well-known member
Groovy and Alphasocket were banned???
Or am I just looking at old posts........
Hm. I feel sad.
I think I rely on this site A LITTLE TOO MUCH for company..... it's what I look forward to every day and I've honestly felt less alone coming on here. I know it's not exactly healthy but being without it.... I'd feel so lonely. This place makes me feel better.
Aw, darnit, I'm getting all teary-eyed now... meh....
THEY WERE BANNED?!?!!?
Also, this is social support, online or not. RL can't be beat yes, but this is something, something more than many ppl have. So it IS healthy. Just about balance. If never ever go and get stuff in person/RL then becomes unhealthy =D
hoddesdon
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You can think of it as a half-way house.
hoddesdon
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Well, definitely original. I like your new avatar, by the way.