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I have a black cat, he is extremely mellow, but I'm grateful he fears water.... Sometimes it's the only way I can get him to stop harassing me for food. :😛:

BlackPuma said: ↑

Kitten! 10 - YouTube

Half tolerance training, half annoying my cat for the fun of it.

^ Haha, I do this to my mom's cat occasionally. She actually likes playing in water. Running faucet, water dish, glass of water on the counter, you name it, she'll have her paw in it either flicking it or just repeatedly dunking her paw in and then licking it. She actually goes outside when it's raining and plays in puddles, flicks the water around with her paw. So weird. 🙄

I am amazed that I havent been given any infractions yet. I am certain I would have been told off by now.

Oh well.... living on the edge. Like a bad ass. Damn straight.

KiaKaha said: ↑

I am amazed that I havent been given any infractions yet. I am certain I would have been told off by now.

Oh well.... living on the edge. Like a bad ass. Damn straight.

I have been given many, but I wonder I still wasn´t banned (only once for a week :😛:)

I hate stupid stereotypes and the stupid people who make them. Although it sounds unfair, I probably make some myself.

KiaKaha said: ↑

I am amazed that I havent been given any infractions yet. I am certain I would have been told off by now.

Oh well.... living on the edge. Like a bad ass. Damn straight.

This guy...this guy right here. He's crazy!

Srijita52 said: ↑

I hate stupid stereotypes and the stupid people who make them. Although it sounds unfair, I probably make some myself.

I think I may be guilty of it, too. In fact I'm certain I am.

Why do I focus too much on the people that dislike me? I really need to change that attitude but I'm very unsure how.

MikeyC said: ↑

Why do I focus too much on the people that dislike me? I really need to change that attitude but I'm very unsure how.

Yeah, I need to change this attitude too. Maybe we do it because we want to please everyone? That's not possible of course though.

MikeyC said: ↑

Why do I focus too much on the people that dislike me? I really need to change that attitude but I'm very unsure how.

You could try a good old fashioned lobotomy!
But you'll have to get in line behind me, first.

Srijita52 said: ↑

Yeah, I need to change this attitude too. Maybe we do it because we want to please everyone? That's not possible of course though.

I think so. Not everyone accepts it, though. I always think it's something I've done wrong, which is probably true, anyway.

WeirdyMcGee said: ↑

You could try a good old fashioned lobotomy!
But you'll have to get in line behind me, first.

Can I jump the queue?

MikeyC said: ↑

I think so. Not everyone accepts it, though. I always think it's something I've done wrong, which is probably true, anyway.

I don't think its true Mikey. Maybe people who dislike you are just way more different than you, or maybe they're being jerks. Don't be so hard on yourself, you're such an awesome person. I'm sure you won't do anything wrong intentionally.

MikeyC said: ↑

Why do I focus too much on the people that dislike me? I really need to change that attitude but I'm very unsure how.

I focus on negative issues too. I suppose we ponder of these issues because it has the most impact on us.

Srijita52 said: ↑

I don't think its true Mikey. Maybe people who dislike you are just way more different than you, or maybe they're being jerks. Don't be so hard on yourself, you're such an awesome person. I'm sure you won't do anything wrong intentionally.

I don't do anything wrong intentionally, but I still feel that I do say the wrong thing or do the wrong thing. I mean, I'm focusing on someone that dislikes me right now, instead of someone like you that doesn't. I really need to wonder why I'm like this because it affects everything.

MrSunday said: ↑

I focus on negative issues too. I suppose we ponder of these issues because it has the most impact on us.

I suppose you're right. I seem to focus on someone's negativity towards me than the opposite. Ugh.

MikeyC said: ↑

I don't do anything wrong intentionally, but I still feel that I do say the wrong thing or do the wrong thing. I mean, I'm focusing on someone that dislikes me right now, instead of someone like you that doesn't. I really need to wonder why I'm like this because it affects everything.

I know how you feel, I think I do it because I hate the idea of anyone disliking me and can't help but wish that they liked me instead. I'm not sure if its same for you but I hope you can be able to stop focusing on such people, they're definitely not worth it.

Dont worry - I have the same problem too. One inkling of rejection and my world comes tumbling down - I have to reject first and push all those out of my life that remind me of just how much of an incredible failure I am. I would rather be ignored than be reminded that I am not good enough.

I can tell you both right now Srijita and Mikey that the both of you are extremely likeable and charming - I like both of you, and lots of other people here do as well. Mikey - you have an amazing warmth to your personality, you listen to people....always. People like that. You are definitely well liked and respected.

Srijita - you are kind hearted, patient, insightful and intelligent - and just generally an awesome person - traits that are always well received and respected also. In my opinion the world needs more people like you.

So BOO to all those people who cant see what wonderful people you both are - either they are too wrapped up in themselves to care or give you an opportunity to know you better, or they just arent worth knowing in the first place.

Although - in saying all of this .... I know EXACTLY where you are coming from - its not easy to believe sometimes...trust me, I know too....

Dont like hanging out too much with guys because there is always the pressure to show that you like women,are a player or being asked to go to brothels,I will never be that and some girls are just not for me,so sometimes I have to lie.

Anyone watching the Eurovision this evening?
http://www.eurovision.tv/esctv

It's a splendid May evening. I'm spending it alone. Anyone else doing so?

Valhalla said: ↑

It's a splendid May evening. I'm spending it alone. Anyone else doing so too?

^ It's late afternoon here, but I'm still spending it alone so far. I'm actually enjoying it. 🙂

Valhalla said: ↑

It's a splendid May evening. I'm spending it alone. Anyone else doing so too?

Its night here now, I spent the evening alone too, I liked it though.

KiaKaha said: ↑

Dont worry - I have the same problem too. One inkling of rejection and my world comes tumbling down - I have to reject first and push all those out of my life that remind me of just how much of an incredible failure I am. I would rather be ignored than be reminded that I am not good enough.

I can tell you both right now Srijita and Mikey that the both of you are extremely likeable and charming - I like both of you, and lots of other people here do as well. Mikey - you have an amazing warmth to your personality, you listen to people....always. People like that. You are definitely well liked and respected.

Srijita - you are kind hearted, patient, insightful and intelligent - and just generally an awesome person - traits that are always well received and respected also. In my opinion the world needs more people like you.

So BOO to all those people who cant see what wonderful people you both are - either they are too wrapped up in themselves to care or give you an opportunity to know you better, or they just arent worth knowing in the first place.

Although - in saying all of this .... I know EXACTLY where you are coming from - its not easy to believe sometimes...trust me, I know too....

Thanks Kia. You know you're a great person too. You're kind, amazing, and I know you have a big heart. You've a desire to help everyone and make the society a better place. The people who can't see it, don't deserve to be around you anyway. You're not a faliure Kia.
You and Mikey both are wonderful people. I'm sure everyone around you is lucky to know you, I know I am. 🙂