Remus said:
There have been a few instance where people complained about guys with shirts off too, when I was a mod I eventually had to warn a guy for constantly posting pics like that. It isnt allowed either.
The webmaster said to me in the begining of the initial "moderating" of this site that the photoalbum was the place for pics (where you need approval) and he didnt want pics posted on the main forums. Though I said it wouldnt be a problem as anything breaching the rules would be removed, this was in 2004.
No offense, but I think that's pretty ridiculous.
Remus said:
my point of view is of the one you deem "without a brain", maybe your view is as narrow minded as my own, since you suffer sex addiction and I am an abuse survivor?
Look I don't mean to be a dick, but all the girl did was post a picture of her and the other poster who got all irate about it probably made her feel like a slut when all she wanted to do was post her pictures!
I fail to see what my addiction has to do with my opinion here. I'm not defending her because I want to see her sexy body, I am defending her because I think it's stupid for some puritan to get all worked up about Katie's picture when all she had to do was simply NOT LOOK AT IT AGAIN.
And I can't speak on what it is like to be a sex abuse survivor. I don't want to make light of that, and I can only imagine how hard that was for you to deal with. That kind of stuff really makes me sick and that really sucks that that happened to you. But how does a girl posting a pic of herself in a bikini impact you in any way? To put it another way, should she really have to worry that much about how her pictures MIGHT make others FEEL? Most of us re-evaluate ourselves too much in the first place. We shouldn't ask people to do that, IMO.