Unspoken
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A woman asked me to look at her profile and contact her. She seemed nice so I sent her a message.
A week after I got her reply. There was no apology, sorry I have been away, unwell, busy, nothing. She says she is interested in me. Why wait a week to reply if you are?. I think I am being played. Am I wrong or is this just the kind of thing that women do.
Has she been online regularly? Is the dating site on her list of places to check daily? How many messages does she receive - including for work, personal e-mail, etc? Does she respond to each, and if so how much time and energy does she put into each? Was there a backlog she had to work through?
I feel like the only person in the world sometimes who's baffled by these expectations in casual social settings.