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People not responding right away!

Started by Marc7 · Feb 7, 2013 · 85 replies

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Yes, I've been having a problem with people not responding. Sometimes it takes them days, weeks, and sometimes they NEVER respond. It's upsetting.
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S_Spartan said: ↑
Yes, I've been having a problem with people not responding. Sometimes it takes them days, weeks, and sometimes they NEVER respond. It's upsetting.

Do you message them everyday e. (did you get my message? are you busy? saying hello everyday)
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I have a "don't care" attitude towards getting responses from other people. It seems so needy if you get upset when you don't get a reply right away. If you don't get a quick reply then it's either a) they are busy or otherwise occupied, or b) they don't respect you enough to reply in a timely manner. In either case it's not worth dwelling over it.
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lttalk74 said: ↑
Do you message them everyday e. (did you get my message? are you busy? saying hello everyday)


No, I just send the initial message and leave it at that.
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Aron said: ↑
I have a "don't care" attitude towards getting responses from other people. It seems so needy if you get upset when you don't get a reply right away. If you don't get a quick reply then it's either a) they are busy or otherwise occupied, or b) they don't respect you enough to reply in a timely manner. In either case it's not worth dwelling over it.

With my SA I simply can't be that cavalier about it.
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S_Spartan said: ↑
No, I just send the initial message and leave it at that.

I do that smh but only if i see them online and/or if they don't respond in one day.

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