one comment which has affected your confidence

Adam1303

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"You're like your dad and no matter how hard you try, you always will be." - My lovely Grandmother. That woman is full of compliments and most certainly isn't the biggest b*** to walk this planet. Oh, and she also wouldn't sell her own family out for money, not at all... Mini rant over.
 

wariomona

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people used to tell me in school that they thought i was the sort of person who would be a serial killer when i was older. never been in a fight in my life, and wouldnt hurt anyone. school was ages ago but i still remember it

People say that to me ALL the time. I assume they're joking though so I can easily laugh it off.
They imply that because I take a lot of s**t but never show anger that one day I'll snap and kill everyone... weird :confused:
 

Qurion2

Member
"you are alike your father"
thats from my mother
"you will be fine"
thats after it happened... and nothing became fine and nothing is fine since then
 

Jessica7

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dear everyone in this thread:

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Nikos23

Active member
When a girl realized that i got anxiety When we walk. I m really " crazy " lol . I aint got Anxiety when i m on a cafeteria with a girl in breath distance and i m anxious when we just walk way back to home.. Cause i think too much and i notice ppl too much but i m working on it
 

*Amy*

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"You don't care at all what people think about you, do you?". The problem is that actually I do care a lot, too much.
 

paperie

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Reading all of these made me so sad. ::(:

A few times stand out in my mind.
-I did track in high school and we had a little "awards" ceremony at the end of the season. The coach called everyone up one by one and said a bunch of sweet things or a funny story about each person. When it was my turn she paused for a while and was like, "Welllll, she's definitely one of the most quiet people I've met!" and laughed....I just remember feeling so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. Everyone just stared at me while I stood there with red cheeks. It hurt that she had something nice to say about everyone, and could only point out my shortcomings.

-In college my roommate had a friend who would hang around our dorm room often. He was pretty much one of the loudest and most obnoxious person on campus yet everyone seemed to love him. I didn't really talk to either of them much because we had little in common. I was working on a paper at my desk one time and he said very loudly behind me, "do you realize shy people get nowhere in life???". That phrase has constantly echoed in my mind ever since he said it, sometimes I feel like he is right.....at least in my case ::(:
 

hardy

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Since the author hasn't told if the incident affected me positively or negatively...here is one of mine.

I am a very anxious person....and one thing that affected me in a positive way is to read the stories of people who have suffered a lot and became stronger. The kid with no legs(YET SMILING all the time), 'no legs no worries' on youtube .
 

vse2008

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"Your're not funny" - my dad whenever he would overhear my joking around with my friends. About grade school age.
 
"Excuse me, sir" I was mistaken for a boy yesterday at the store even though I was wearing girly clothing. Think I am going to start wearing mask in public.
 

Nathália

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I love androgynous people, don't let that hurt your self esteem totally. I am sorry you get called a boy, not a good feeling I understand.
 
You ugly anorexic bitch! Did you think snitching on us was smart? Huh? *shoves me into a wall* How about I kick your ass you dumb ass piece of ****."

-Luckily for me I was not beat up that day. Also I was never anorexic I was just the skinny girl in my class and was harrassed for it daily.
 

Srijita52

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You ugly anorexic bitch! Did you think snitching on us was smart? Huh? *shoves me into a wall* How about I kick your ass you dumb ass piece of ****."

-Luckily for me I was not beat up that day. Also I was never anorexic I was just the skinny girl in my class and was harrassed for it daily.

That's awful, I'm sorry.
 

Srijita52

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Shortly after I was born, some woman visiting my mom at the hospital told her that I was ugly. Apparently, my skin was all wrinkly and brown and I had a disproportionate nose. I was shocked to hear this from my mom. The woman probably was expecting a beautiful baby boy.

After getting a haircut, some random beautiful girl in class telling me I look even uglier now than I did before.

Lots and lots of people telling me to shut up or not be a creep.

There are way too many examples like these. It's torture.

Wow I don't know what to say. Sorry you went through this.
 
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