My 10 Dream List

[Dj SL]

1- I will change my life.
2- I will make friends.
3- I will go back to school.
4- I will smile to friendly people.
5- I will try to not avoid people.
6- I will make one or two close friend(s).
7- I will have a girlfriend.
8- I will be more in contact with my family.
9- I will be a professional DJ.
10- I will socialize with people I like.

If I sacrifice and work on this 10 dreams and they come true, I will be happy

Now guys feel free to post your 10 dreams; I know yall have dreams

DJ SL

 

[Fighter86]

As it is, I only have one wish now. I really hope to find a companion to do things with, I've missed a couple opportunities in the past year, and just two the other week, I'm so dissapointed with myself because they come so rarely, and the last one I missed was someone who could take care of me too :: Not sure when I am able to meet another one, and even then, I might not be able to get one this suitable. I feel screwed and its so sad and boring doing everything by myself ::

 

[Deus_Ex_Lemur]

I like this. I will post realistic, achievable goals with I will affirmation. I no order. Hmm so many actually I should condense these later.

1. I will not AVOID, period. People, my future, tough situations, avoiding as a way of coping must stop.
2. I will believe in myself, I will not be so self-critical and self-loathing with negative energy. Realistic positive thinking.
3. I will enjoy the moment more, be mindful, aware
4. I will be consistent in what I need to do to change/rid SAD, small steps all forward. Mistakes and setbacks will be normal, I will embrace that and not let hinder my progress.
5. I will seek my school's psych help, find a therapist, join a support group, while I have access to school's service's.
6. After school ends, I'll get a job
7. I will put myself out there for filmmaking opportunities, not hide away and think I'm hopeless and suck and avoid working with ppl.
8. I will open myself more to romantic involvement, have fun, relax, not force things or avoid.
9. I will put myself out there and start conversations and speak loud, not mumble, not loath my voice, just go for it.
10. I will film and write and really make an effort to make those things HAPPEN
I will not give others the consent to "hurt me".
I will think win/win, put first things first.
I will stop writing now.

 

[Sial Axetder]

I don't understand. When did dreams happen? What is this dream thing? It is easy to tear it apart. Now I must find some tape.

 

[WeirdyMcGee]

1- I will stop hating myself
2- I will go outside
3- I will get a part time job
4- I will volunteer/donate/work for charity
5- I will make a friend
6- I will pay off my debt
7- I will get in shape
8- I will find something that I am good at
9- I will travel
10- I will be happy (generally happy rather than sad and depressed all the time)


It seems to me like I am asking for too much.
I suppose it's best to start from the top and make baby steps.

 

[Falkor]

nice topic DJ SL
It's never a bad thing to keep dreaming, it keeps the faith alive and it makes you even work harder to achieve it, make steps into the right direction, sometimes things are even more close than you think, it's just you have to get through it, but you will get there if you keep on fighting for it ^^

My top 10 dream list;
1.A Life-Change
2.Get a diploma at school, not only 1, even more.
3.Become a professional singer, make a lot of songs.
4.Become a DJ
5.Moving in with my girlfriend someday:$
6.Have a nice job (or a dream job, with a lot of challenges)
7.Travel around the world, wanna see so much
8.Become a professional Skateboarder, that would be friggin awesome, but it takes a lot of practice.
9.Get a villa/crib , lol
10.Sell a book worldwide, that's one of my biggest dreams, I'd love to publish a book , maybe a biography about my life (social anxiety life) or just a fictional story for teens.

 

[Nanita]

10 of my dreams/goals/needs:

1) live in a house surrounded by nature
2) make songs on my guitar
3) do some kinda work with nature/animals
4) try Multi Incarnation Therapy / regression therapy
5) get the desired tattoo that I´ve wanted for so long
6) go to Bali
7) learn Reiki healing
8) become better at not avoiding situations/people
9) have way more self discipline
10) get a drivers license


...etcetera

 

[*Amy*]

1. I will get a good job
2. I will apply to a theatre course and later perform in plays
3. I will learn to draw and put my pictures in my bedroom
4. I will finish writing some things I have begun
5. I will talk normally to people around me and be nice to them
6. I will get a nice boyfriend
7. I won't get anxious anymore about presentations, parties, talking to teachers, and stuff like that
8. I will travel to many countries
9. I will learn to speak Russian fluently
10. I will always have friends to rely on

 

[sullyS25]

1-I will live in another country (preferably spanish speaking)
2-I will always live in the present moment and not be worried about the future or depressed about the past
3-I will practice yoga regularly
4-I will meditate regularly
5-I will stay sober
6-I will have a group of true, supportive friends.
7-I will be happy with what I am doing to make a living
8-I will treat my family with respect and have a good relationship with them
9-I will travel the world making it to asia, India and Egypt (at least)
10- I will learn multiple languages

 

[Deus_Ex_Lemur]

All of these are realistic achievable "dreams" I read. They're more goals than just dreams. Lets go achieve them! =)

 

[JosephG]

1. I will be able to hold long term friendships.
2. I will be able to hold down a long term relationship.
3. I will be happy most of the time.
4. I will finish writing my songs I never get round to completing.
5. I will become a doctor.
6. I will have a nice house and car.
7. I will travel the world.
8. I will devote my life to helping others once I have sorted myself out.
9. I will help raise awareness for mental health disorders and try to remove the stigma from soceity.
10. I will be a normal person.

 

[BlackPuma]

1. Have my own high tech (secret/underground) workshop where I can design and build machinery in peace. Just as a hobby, I swear. :B
2. Have a nice voice for singing.
3. Set myself free from conventional life, and live the life I feel I should (outside mainstream society, but still amongst people/animals/nature, living a simple life).
4. Hug a tiger, and not painfully die in the process.

Ehmm, and for the rest.

5. Milk
6. Coffee.
7. Pizza.
8. Cookies.
9. A oven so I can bake again. <3
10. Rechargeable batteries.

 

[kerunia]

1. I will go to therapy and improve my brain
2. I will find confidence in myself by doing things that will boost-my self esteem.
3. I will finally be able to finish high-school and go to college
4. I will do more activities involved with people.
5. I will travel and volunteer
6. I will accept it and move forward.
7. I will develop a few close friendships
8. I will experience true soulmate love.

 

[JamesSmith]

I don't have ten dreams, I really only have one. I just want to have the habit of having relaxed muscles all of the time. I think I'll figure everything else after that if was able to achieve muscle relaxation.