Weirdo
Well-known member
I have noticed that the reason I often don't know what to say is that, I don't care enough about other people so my mind doesn't even bother with coming up with something.
Most people's lives are so goddamn uninteresting that, talking to them would be a waste of breath, since they are like carbon copies of each other. Just a few examples - I have a roommate and I could ask him about how he spent the holidays or how was his day etc. but I really don't give a ****. I wonder if normal people have genuine interest in talking about stuff like that or they just learned to fake it 24/7.
The opposite example is my former date(she was interesting, unlike most people) - we talked and talked for hours and I really enjoyed our conversations and even when I felt like there's nothing else I have to say, we kept talking for another 2 hours(then I had to leave).
Bottom line: I can have a nice conversation if I have a genuine interest in the person. So if I want to overcome my SP I have to learn to care about others; that's going to be tough.
Most people's lives are so goddamn uninteresting that, talking to them would be a waste of breath, since they are like carbon copies of each other. Just a few examples - I have a roommate and I could ask him about how he spent the holidays or how was his day etc. but I really don't give a ****. I wonder if normal people have genuine interest in talking about stuff like that or they just learned to fake it 24/7.
The opposite example is my former date(she was interesting, unlike most people) - we talked and talked for hours and I really enjoyed our conversations and even when I felt like there's nothing else I have to say, we kept talking for another 2 hours(then I had to leave).
Bottom line: I can have a nice conversation if I have a genuine interest in the person. So if I want to overcome my SP I have to learn to care about others; that's going to be tough.