KiaKaha
Banned
Sup,
Its me, Kia - the most respected and popular member of the forum. How you doing?
So I have decided to create a thread to to....record... and examine all the times I get rejected, socially and romantically.
Some of you - if you decide to read this, are not going to like some of the things I may say....or come to the conclusion about. I will abide by the forum rules (well I will TRY to at least - if I get banned then I guess that is the way it is) but the content itself may be a little on the controversial side.
I am... remarkably unpopular. I always have been - or at least - that is what it feels like. I have low self esteem, a poor self image and when I feel low... I feel so low that I can barely breathe or think straight. I am socially awkward, I lack confidence, shy and anxious. I am also angry, frustrated and hurt. I have a very strong underlying belief that I am uncared for, un liked and physically unattractive. It is quite clear that obviously I have some mental health issues. However - on the surface - occasionally - I can appear easy going, charming, likeable and confident.
In real life - I am, or at least I like to think I am (I am quite unsure of my perception of how things really are these days - and what reality really means at all) quite mellow, calm and friendly.
For the record - there are a few things that I like about myself - that I feel contribute to who I am as a person. I generally feel that I am a good person. I have a kind eye for people who seem to be ignored. I am sympathetic to the poor and patient with those who are hard to deal with. I have compassion to those who are ousted by the majority. Generally I am polite, I am courteous and I can admit when I am wrong and I know how to say sorry.
Even though when I feel like the world is against me - that I am completely alone and when I feel that everyone hates me - these are things, that help keep me together - these are the things that keep me alive.
Its me, Kia - the most respected and popular member of the forum. How you doing?
So I have decided to create a thread to to....record... and examine all the times I get rejected, socially and romantically.
Some of you - if you decide to read this, are not going to like some of the things I may say....or come to the conclusion about. I will abide by the forum rules (well I will TRY to at least - if I get banned then I guess that is the way it is) but the content itself may be a little on the controversial side.
I am... remarkably unpopular. I always have been - or at least - that is what it feels like. I have low self esteem, a poor self image and when I feel low... I feel so low that I can barely breathe or think straight. I am socially awkward, I lack confidence, shy and anxious. I am also angry, frustrated and hurt. I have a very strong underlying belief that I am uncared for, un liked and physically unattractive. It is quite clear that obviously I have some mental health issues. However - on the surface - occasionally - I can appear easy going, charming, likeable and confident.
In real life - I am, or at least I like to think I am (I am quite unsure of my perception of how things really are these days - and what reality really means at all) quite mellow, calm and friendly.
For the record - there are a few things that I like about myself - that I feel contribute to who I am as a person. I generally feel that I am a good person. I have a kind eye for people who seem to be ignored. I am sympathetic to the poor and patient with those who are hard to deal with. I have compassion to those who are ousted by the majority. Generally I am polite, I am courteous and I can admit when I am wrong and I know how to say sorry.
Even though when I feel like the world is against me - that I am completely alone and when I feel that everyone hates me - these are things, that help keep me together - these are the things that keep me alive.