Emma22w
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Haha! My online life is the same!
It's like no one cares...
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Haha! My online life is the same!
lyricalliaisons
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: I feel the same exact way. I hope things get better for you.
DarkSeeker
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I care, but I can only help you as much as you can help me...
The problem is not a simple to solve as going outside and meeting somebody to befriend. There's somewhere a need to grow up, to accept and control our chaotic emotions and mature as a responsible adult and human being.
Something virtually impossible to do alone, and yet we aren't given much of a choice.
lunarla
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I think this is so true. I'm beginning to really believe this even though it's hard to realize that this is all in my control. Even though I really do know it. If that makes any sense. I control how deep I get into a depression with my negativity. It's so easy to justify it as being my mind or just how I think. But really, there's a line and IIII either cross it or I don't and I do it consciously. Thank you for that post!
friendchen
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You're right.. and I do feel like that too...
living without friends or without somebody to talk to is really depressing and frustrating..
living without friends or without somebody to talk to is really depressing and frustrating..
Justas
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That's because nobody cares. I don't talk about people here, but other don't care. I read this somewhere: When you're 20 you're thinking what others are thinking about you. When you 40 you don't care what others think about you. And when you're 60 you understand that nobody ever cared about you... Man stands alone in this world.
But I don't think that this fits to everybody.
But I don't think that this fits to everybody.
well you do have us..
and I feel the same way..I try to ignore it, which is tough lol. or I try to be there for myself...I search for something that may help, like this forum for example.
I dont have really anybody to talk to about deep stuff such as Social phobia or lifes problems. Most people don't seem like they want to talk about those things.
and I feel the same way..I try to ignore it, which is tough lol. or I try to be there for myself...I search for something that may help, like this forum for example.
I dont have really anybody to talk to about deep stuff such as Social phobia or lifes problems. Most people don't seem like they want to talk about those things.
Tempus35
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All I really have is my online life, unless you consider talking to family, but that isnt fully the same.
Darker Than Black
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i feel like that when I'm sad...like right now,
a friend of mine just changed Uni programs because he want to be w/ his gf
being single sucks, doesn't it, if i can talk more...a lot more, i mean his like 200pounds and he have a gf, im only 160, i don't think i look bad...i just don't talk enough, so its hard to start a relationship
a friend of mine just changed Uni programs because he want to be w/ his gf
being single sucks, doesn't it, if i can talk more...a lot more, i mean his like 200pounds and he have a gf, im only 160, i don't think i look bad...i just don't talk enough, so its hard to start a relationship
Justas
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Darker Than Black I don't think he's a very good friend. I had one friend who forgets me when he finds a girl. When the girl is gone, than we're friends again. I don't keep much contact with him now. I don't think he's a bad person, but he choose what's better for him. It's his own life. We should be more selfish too.
LockieKermit
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Can I just say you look really pretty. Sorry if it sounds weird but I wanted you to know.
Your welcome to talk to anyone on this forum via the chat bar at the bottom.
Your welcome to talk to anyone on this forum via the chat bar at the bottom.
It doesn't matter how pretty you are. If you aren't happy with yourself, people won't be happy with you.
LockieKermit
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I know. I just had to relativize that. There are myriads of girl with her looks, who are very happy with themselves and their lives.
LockieKermit
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I know. I just wanted to make her possibly feel a bit better (I wasn't lying) is all.
Given the number of pictures of herself she put up on her profile, it's safe to assume that she is very insecure about her looks. Telling her she's pretty might make her feel a bit better for a moment, but that'd be it. Her good looks apparently don't help with her loneliness, and certainly aren't a substitute for human interaction.
Why don't you take her out for dinner? That'd be helpful. (However, given the distance between you two, this might not be a realistic piece of advice.)
Just Making It
Member
Why is that that even when im with my "friends" or "family" I still feel lonely?? whats wrong with me.. i have so much to be thankful for but I still feel so alone...ewww!!!
