is being a male virgin unnattractive?

[j_brown2]

J, if you're that sure, then okay, have it your way. I would be so attracted to your extra-special, super-dooper alpha male that my mind would go blank and I'd respond purely to my animal instincts. Feel better now?

Good luck with your skewed attitude to female sexuality. May it bring you no success whatsoever.

It's not about having it my way, I just find it so weird thAt you say you wouldnt be attracted to an alpha male, they have qualities that you don't like supposedly, I just can't believe that... Iam just saying I know you would like being around an alpha male, every woman does... but you never met one so you don't know how an alpha male is like, so no point in arguing

It would be enough if you just said you might be attracted to him, a maybe... Saying you wouldn't just seems completely wrong to me... Don't need to be scared of alpha males lol

Don't worry about me and getting woman, I know what to do, I don't need to be an alpha to get one

 

[Satine]

There is more than one way of achieving alphadom, and some of the qualities I like, some I don't. But I'm not, on the whole, sexually attracted to them. I haven't said that I don't like any alpha qualities, I've only said that alphadom is not my preference.

And again I'll ask you: how do you know I've not met an alpha male? I have met a lot of people as I've lived in a few different towns, I've worked in over a dozen workplaces, I've been to plenty of public events and talked to many strangers. What makes you so certain that among all those people, none of them were alpha males? Hmm?

 

[j_brown2]

Ouch! Bad carpal tunnel, naughty carpal tunnel!





That is a poor comparison. Sexual attraction and social anxiety are very different mechanisms.

I was just trying to make a comparison of how emotions are powerful and overide any rational thinking or logic, an alpha male is never going to say to you let's have sex coz that would make you think rational and you would say no.... He would keep your emotions in play all the time and your rational thinking and logic out of the way... I really can not help myself but laugh when you say you could resist an alpha male.... I think you fear them that's why you just keep saying no no all the time

Nothing to fear hear, you would enjoy them lol

 

[Satine]

Emotions can override rational thinking, but they don't have to do.

And you think I'm afraid of this alpha male type you're talking about? What is your evidence of this? So far, what I see is that you're absolutely in love with the idea of the alpha male and don't have the intelligence to see that another person might not feel the same way as you.

I am not afraid of this alpha template you're describing. You are being inflexible in your willingness to understand my response. I would not choose to have sex with this alpha and that is that. I suggest you drop it, J.

 

[j_brown2]

There is more than one way of achieving alphadom, and some of the qualities I like, some I don't. But I'm not, on the whole, sexually attracted to them. I haven't said that I don't like any alpha qualities, I've only said that alphadom is not my preference.

And again I'll ask you: how do you know I've not met an alpha male? I have met a lot of people as I've lived in a few different towns, I've worked in over a dozen workplaces, I've been to plenty of public events and talked to many strangers. What makes you so certain that among all those people, none of them were alpha males? Hmm?

Thinking that a thug who doesn't want anyone to say anything back says it all lol, if you met one you would know better, I did and the first time I heard about alpha males I knew that's what my uncle was like, I didn't think alpha males are some thugs lol

I won't try to explain an alpha male coz you have to see it to believe it. if I wouldn't meet an alpha male before I guess I would be a skeptic to, but I did, it's unbelievable he had a wife, he had woman around all the time, the wife never had a problem with it, being around him just made you feel so good, it's on an emotional level, I can't explain it, he never said anything nice to me or whatever, just being around him made you feel like your special, he got you in a different state of mind lol,

I saw it with my own eyes, I experienced it myself... what they say about alpha males is true, become an alpha male and you won't have time anymore to look after hot women... I know your taking offence of this, coz it seems not right but it's the way it is and it is the truth

No woman can not be attracted to a true alpha male, it's not possible coz of the emotions that come up when a woman is around an alpha male.

There are many other things how you can make a girl attracted to you like with NLP with the anchoring method,

 

[Satine]

I don't think alpha males are thugs either, you're twisting my words. I said that being a thug is one way of being an alpha. Not the only way.

I won't try to explain an alpha male coz you have to see it to believe it... {snip}

Yes, well, that would fit in with your super-alpha man-fantasy, J. Enjoy it, won't you?

 

[j_brown2]

Emotions can override rational thinking, but they don't have to do.

And you think I'm afraid of this alpha male type you're talking about? What is your evidence of this? So far, what I see is that you're absolutely in love with the idea of the alpha male and don't have the intelligence to see that another person might not feel the same way as you.

I am not afraid of this alpha template you're describing. You are being inflexible in your willingness to understand my response. I would not choose to have sex with this alpha and that is that. I suggest you drop it, J.

You don't get it woman you would have no choice haha, you are trying to convince me of something like if someone offers you a mil you would say no to it... it's the same thing

Meet an alpha male first... we will talk about this later than... how the sex was lol

I will drop it, maybe I will be an alpha one day haha and we will see.

 

[j_brown2]

Being a thug is in no way an alpha male, however you wanna put it

 

[j_brown2]

There's satine who likes this type of a guy, than there is another girl who likes this other type of a guy... than there comes an alpha male along and both girls will be automatically attracted to him, it's nature, it's like physics- it's invetible, an alpha male is no thug or a player who have qualities some girls like some don't, an alpha male has the qualities all woman are attracted to, you have no idea woman on here how an alpha male would make you feel. He is no arrogant ass, no player who brags about stuff... he is just everything you want

 

[Satine]

Yep, anything you say, dear.

 

[j_brown2]

Satine Iam an alpha male, are you attracted to me? Did I attract you through my posts hahaha ah Iam tired gotta get offline...

 

[lurknomore]

There's satine who likes this type of a guy, than there is another girl who likes this other type of a guy... than there comes an alpha male along and both girls will be automatically attracted to him, it's nature, it's like physics- it's invetible, an alpha male is no thug or a player who have qualities some girls like some don't, an alpha male has the qualities all woman are attracted to, you have no idea woman on here how an alpha male would make you feel. He is no arrogant ass, no player who brags about stuff... he is just everything you want

So, how many actual alpha males are there in the world- the percentage has to be pretty small for us women not to have ever come into contact with this person you have described- oh yeah, because you have described a "perfect" person, and those just don't exist.
I find it hard to believe that you think that I could meet a person that would overpower my self-control and common sense- in fact, I find it offensive.

 

[j_brown2]

lol I realize this is an anxiety site so people are scared, but an alpha male is no evil thing, you all act like he would harm you, or do something against you own interest, it would all be natural, you would enjoy yourself around an alpha male, the thing is you would like it so much that you would want more of him

 

[Satine]

lol I realize this is an anxiety site so people are scared, but an alpha male is no evil thing, you all act like he would harm you, or do something against you own interest, it would all be natural, you would enjoy yourself around an alpha male, the thing is you would lime it so much that you would want more

Yep, anything you say, dear.

 

[j_brown2]

Oh satine your so nice you make me feel so good.. are you an alpha female? I feel somekind of attraction there haha

 

[j_brown2]

Where are you from satine? I really wanna know, well not close to me I guess coz you said your working and I don't believe you work at 3 am. You seem like an interesting woman I would wanna meet. I got some desires

 

[j_brown2]

Iam sorry I got out of control with that alpha male thing.... Women your right you can resist an alpha male, you have that special ability... Iam sorry for those annoying posts, sorry satine for going on your nerves, Iam going to bed now

 

[hippiechild]

good goodness! Sickjoke, please continue to post regularly on this forum. Everything you've said has been a breath of fresh air. Thank you =)

Although his comments lack the sugary sweetness of most on SPW, I think his will be far more beneficial in the long run. Eating sweets rots your teeth and makes you weak

 

[Havocan]

Why the bloody Hell should that be unattractive?

 

[j_brown2]

WTF? what makes you so angry about what sickjoke said?