I wouldn't call it stalking

[Luna1740]

Hey, does anyone else out there frequent coffee shops/grocery stores/ etc... anywhere where there is someone of the opposite sex that you find attractive but never have the "balls" to have a real conversation with, you both just flirt with each other on an almost daily basis

 

[Jake123]

There's some really hot guy that works at the cafeteria in the pool I frequent... he's probably straight so I don't bother, but I always get excited when he hands me my pizza.

 

[coyote]

Yes - all the time.

 

[NathanielWingatePeaslee]

I do not leave the house often enough to frequent anywhere for this to possibly happen.

 

[agoraphobickatie]

i don't ever really run into the same people anywhere, but i like to scope out barnes & noble, 'cause there's usually cute guys there, haha!! that and a local restaurant where my friends and i play trivia/karaoke, there's usually hot guys there, too! lmao

 

[rodinski]

Stalking is the act of following someone or harassing their security in some means to provide intimidation. Are you following these chicks or just trying to put yourself in a public setting in hopes of interacting with people.

And nopezors. Tend not to do things like this.

 

[Freeflex]

I've never physically stalked anyone, however I'm ashamed to admit that I've e-stalked a guy I had a crush on once. :/ I used to read his Facebook/MySpace all the time and added his MSN and used to talk to him on that sometimes but never actually spoke to him in person despite the fact he was in my class at school. I realised my crush on him wasn't going anywhere, so I eventually admitted to him what I thought of him, of course it didn't work out, though he was nice about it.

My SA stopped me going up to him and trying to get to know him, which is a shame, because I actually got along with most of his friends, I just didn't know any of them on a semi-personal basis.

 

[Kiwong]

No. I avoid those situation as much as possible. I prevent all possible confusion that I am in any way interested.

 

[Aussie_Lad]

however I'm ashamed to admit that I've e-stalked a guy I had a crush on once. :/ I used to read his Facebook/MySpace all the time and added his MSN and used to talk to him on that sometimes but never actually spoke to him in person despite the fact he was in my class at school.

You shouldn't be ashamed. A lot of people e-stalk others on the social networking sites etc. It is a lot easier than stalking in real life.

 

[McLeanJ08]

Yes, I also do this also this. In school I always try to sit next to the girls I like, but I don't do or say anything though.

 

[staticreflex]

I don't really go that far, but I definitely get excited (emotionally ) when I happen to run into someone on my currant crush list

 

[dottie]

no. if i see someone attractive my thoughts are:

1. there's no chance,
2. they probably have a ton of women (gross),
3. they are taken,
4. they are gay.

total optimist hehe

 

[LazyHermitCrab]

there's some cute nerds at the bookstore also at the gym but it's frusterating to know if the person is flirting back or what :/

 

[rodinski]

no. if i see someone attractive my thoughts are:

1. there's no chance,
2. they probably have a ton of women (gross),
3. they are taken,
4. they are gay.

total optimist hehe

female?

E-DATE, now. LETS GO.

male?

no homo.

 

[R3X]

lol i'm doing this to this one girl i like...it's not stalking,it's more like "getting opportunities as much as possible" to get closer to her...i've had some of those opportunities but well, i couldn't do nothing except just a smile/hi...::