my boyfriend. Personally, I'd want my boyfriend to be sensitive, emotional, and caring of my feelings and emotions. Is it bad I feel this way. Many people I've come across who are the opposite aren't matching very well(My family, kids my age, ect.) I can't relate with anyone who act like they don't have any problems and can manage life well on their hands. I don't want that. I want someone nearly the same as me. I'm not attracted to any tall model like muscled figured men either. They don't attract me much even though most people would believe a girl likes those types of qualities, I really wouldn't care.[/quote]
We've all got problems, and don't always manage a some points in life. We just don't always talk about them openly sometimes, because they can be depressin'.
[QUOTE="I love lions, post: 724631, member: 30591"]Also, I'd like to be able to be the "man" sometimes like buying things for him and making him foods.[/quote]
Nae offense intended, here, darlin', and [I][B]please don't take this the wrong way[/B][/I]. But... don't you mean "[I]woman[/I]"? In that, it should equal. Both of you buyin' each other things, and cookin' meals for each other? Just sayin'...
[QUOTE="I love lions, post: 724631, member: 30591"]Is it bad I want these things. Last time there was a tall guy in my art class even, I kind of felt disgusted. I couldn't even look at him, I mean I'm not trying to offend him or anything but I don't find muscled tall men appealing to me. Don't get me wrong, I think plenty of girls should be attracted to whoever they want and whoever they feel who they are comfortable to be with, but I think people need to stop making generalizations of what girls/boys want. And I do think people should stop telling me who I should(typically) be attracted to. That's all I had to say.[/quote]
No, it's not bad at all, that you want these things in a boyfriend. I don't the lad should be offended because yer not attracted to him. He'll probably wonder why - since you, typically, should be attracted to that type of man. [I]Because all women like good lookin', tall, muscular guys. Right...?! Or at least, that what the media constantly say... same goes with the type of women men should attracted to! Ye know, yer typically blonde, or brunette, massive breasts....[/I] But I digress. Ye get ma point, though. Right?
Ah guess, yer kinda goin' against social expectations, in a way, wantin' a man who's caring, emotional, and sensative - in that these aren't the first things that spring to mind. [I]It's usually looks and money, first[/I]. :sarcastic: I'm jokin', I know not all women are [I]that[/I] shallow... Again, no offense meant.
As the sayin' goes: [I]Beauty is in the eye of the beholder[/I], to use that old cliqué.
Ah agree, though, that people tellin' ye who you should be attracted to is wrong. Since their expectations aren't yours as well. And it's your life and your choice at the end o' the day. You shouldnae feel pressure to be what someone else expects ye to be, or give into that, either. If yer not attracted to muscular men, so what? Does that make less of a woman? Does my lack of interest in sports, alcohol, and men's magazines, make me less of a man. No, just different, that's all. But then different is seen as weird by some. And, ma final point, ah also agree that people should stop makin' generalisations of what girls/boys want - we're not all the same.
[I]Sorry that ma reply turned intae a wee bit o' a rant... :giggle: :thumbup:[/I]
