Dark angel
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What are the things in life that you consider are overrated? Ok, here's the thing. I got this best friend who is just 5-6 days to into labor and she is very excited about it. She has being nervous also 'cause she is a first time mom and she doesnt know what the moment is gonna be like and how she is gonna react. As a friend, I've told her previously to stop thinking about it way too much 'cause intuitively women are prepared physically for that kind of situation. Now, the problem is this. I've being sort of pretending to be excited for her in this new stage of her life but what I CAN'T understand is why people consider the birth of a newborn baby to be such a big moment? Yes the biological process in itself amazes me but people always say how having a child "completely changes your life and make you see things differently". Is it really like that, is that really the case? Because my friend used to hate the idea of having children and to this day she says she doesnt have patience for them(I know that'll change eventually). Also I feel like the idea of having a child is overrated at the moment it happens. Everybody calls it an indescriptible moment but after seeing a picture on facebook today of a labor, all I could think of was the pain the person feels.
Today she texted me and she said she was getting emotional and also cried because in a few days she is gonna have her baby. I couldnt help but think that she was being a hipocrite. Yes, it sounds God awful but I couldn't think otherwise knowing that just 1 year ago she was saying that she would never have children 'cause she wouldnt be able to handle them. I may sound bitter and envious but I swear to God I'm not. I dont know if the fact of spending too much time by myself has made me this sort of rock who doesnt feel or care. :idontknow:
I dont like it. I dont like the feeling of being so neutral about this important moment for her. I used to love being around children and playing with them but maybe being lonely too much time has taken its toll in my humanity causing a dehumanazation of my character. The birth of this child could mean lots of things to my relationship with my friend, it could bring us closer together or break us apart 'cause I know children takes time away. Why am I feeling so apathic towards it? and also, what other things you consider to be overrated in life?
Today she texted me and she said she was getting emotional and also cried because in a few days she is gonna have her baby. I couldnt help but think that she was being a hipocrite. Yes, it sounds God awful but I couldn't think otherwise knowing that just 1 year ago she was saying that she would never have children 'cause she wouldnt be able to handle them. I may sound bitter and envious but I swear to God I'm not. I dont know if the fact of spending too much time by myself has made me this sort of rock who doesnt feel or care. :idontknow:
I dont like it. I dont like the feeling of being so neutral about this important moment for her. I used to love being around children and playing with them but maybe being lonely too much time has taken its toll in my humanity causing a dehumanazation of my character. The birth of this child could mean lots of things to my relationship with my friend, it could bring us closer together or break us apart 'cause I know children takes time away. Why am I feeling so apathic towards it? and also, what other things you consider to be overrated in life?