How was your first sexual experience?

[Beatrice]

I disagree with you Nate, I think porn is a bad thing because of the things I've heard about the actresses in it (not necessarily the effects it has on the viewer, that's a whole different issue).... the way they're treated and the way they feel I mean. But some of them are trapped because it's how they make their money. I don't know, I probably don't know half as much as I think I do about it though. Anyway, that's off topic.......

 

[da_illest101]

Aw, sorry to hear that! Its only natural to feel that way, but only because this girl was a random. You're no more likely to find her parts attractive as you are if random people in the street suddenly pulled their pants down.
It'll be better next time, provided you have feelings for the person
How was it this morning? Or did you not spend the night together?

nah when I was done I left all traumatised, I'm sure she realized that. It was 10 at night. I went to bed at 12 which is super early for me. I couldn't sleep properly, i was over heating, I got dizzy when I stood up, my stomach hurting. It was hell. I'm full of remorse. I just wish i would have back down like I usally do. Now I been trying to eat a slice of bread for the past 20 mins

 

[N0D]

mine was with my best friend at the time and it was great.

 

[NathanielWingatePeaslee]

I disagree with you Nate, I think porn is a bad thing because of the things I've heard about the actresses in it (not necessarily the effects it has on the viewer, that's a whole different issue).... the way they're treated and the way they feel I mean. But some of them are trapped because it's how they make their money. I don't know, I probably don't know half as much as I think I do about it though. Anyway, that's off topic.......

Ohhh. I was really thinking of the idea of looking at porn, rather than the industry as a whole. Poor wording on my part. I don't think it's damaging to the viewer if you don't take it seriously, but even that opinion isn't backed up by research.

You're right though, that's another discussion anyway.

Pips: know what?

 

[userremoved]

Pips: know what?

Everything you said. How would someone who's not had sex know that?

What Im trying to say is I cant tell whats real and whats not. How the hell am I supposed to know? I know wrestling is fake because I've obviously seen real fights and been in them. See what Im saying?

 

[Felgen]

Where's the vote option for "It was mechanical"?

 

[userremoved]

Never mind, forget I said anything. Its off topic anyways

 

[NathanielWingatePeaslee]

Everything you said. How would someone who's not had sex know that?

What Im trying to say is I cant tell whats real and whats not. How the hell am I supposed to know? I know wrestling is fake because I've obviously seen real fights and been in them. See what Im saying?

Oh, okay. I wasn't saying that I expected anyone to know, if that's what you're thinking. Not knowing is understandable. Without actually having had sex, I'd say the best way of knowing is to talk to women about their views on porn and what sex is really like. Sure, people lie, but I don't think most women would be motivated to lie to you about that.

 

[doubleM]

my first time was pretty unsatisfying too. was a total mistake. she seemed to love it but i was like uhh....thats it? luckily that relationship ended. i mean when you enjoy rubbin one out by yourself more than doing your gf, thats pretty bad.

 

[da_illest101]

Ohhh. I was really thinking of the idea of looking at porn, rather than the industry as a whole. Poor wording on my part. I don't think it's damaging to the viewer if you don't take it seriously, but even that opinion isn't backed up by research.

You're right though, that's another discussion anyway.

Pips: know what?

know how to not take porn seriously. When you are not taught better then that, it's hard to not give in. My parents told me to not watch porn, yet they never explain why. I didn't listen when I was having so much fun watching it. I first saw porn when I was 7, but really got hooked to it around 14. I'm addict on my way to recovery but my interest for it completely died last night. Porn is a fantasy but you only really realised when you do it for real

 

[panicsurvivor]

Unfortunately my first sexual encounter's came at age 4 so they were......interesting. My memories of it are some of my first memories. I can't really say that it was great, or terrible or anything. It was...... to big for me. Like one of my daughters trying to walk around in my work boots.

 

[panicsurvivor]

my first sexual experience was absolutely beautiful

until her pimp burst into the room and robbed me at gunpoint

I actually choked on my water and spewed it on my moniter laughing at this!

 

[ANNomaly]

It wasn't all that great. I panicked halfway in. He seemed to take it in stride. Hmm.

 

[black_widow]

are we talking about intercourse?

mine 1st time - it was painful . i didnt really enjoy it. but my boyfriend said it was the best he ever had, dont know if i believed him or not.
i think its meant to hurt 1st time for the ladies anyway isnt it?

anyway as time went on it got more enjoyable

 

[DimBulb]

I am a virgin. (or the masculine gender of that).

 

[MagicPotion]

are we talking about intercourse?

mine 1st time - it was painful . i didnt really enjoy it. but my boyfriend said it was the best he ever had, dont know if i believed him or not.
i think its meant to hurt 1st time for the ladies anyway isnt it?

anyway as time went on it got more enjoyable

It can hurt for men too - did for me. Apparently it's not that uncommon. Basically if you're an uncircumcised guy and starting at a later age than usual, you're probably not used to it being stretched and pulled about like it is during sex. OUCH. I'm worried that the next time (if there is a next time) it's going to hurt just as bad.

 

[drganon]

Does the first time I whacked off count? Cause other than that I've got nothing.

 

[DimBulb]

Does the first time I whacked off count? Cause other than that I've got nothing.

Hmm, does it count, if so, i did it first when i was 16. It was a holiday and nobody was home.

 

[coyote]

REMINDER:

let's not get too graphic - there are minors present

 

[rbecca]

At that time it was an allright time to do it, but after all i regret it, the guy cheated on me two months later, i felt SO stupid.
I wasn't scared or anything, a little ashamed, but it was dark $)
It didn't hurt actually...