Many people have all sorts of problems and still manage to have jobs and earn money, maybe this can help? Even people with disabilities sometimes manage to find good workplaces..
If your employer asked you to go on tills, you just have to say i dont want to, you dont have to tell them why... Thats some advice my dad gave me a little while ago. I never used it though!!
hmm, I don't think saying 'I don't want to' is really for today's economic climate.. it may be better to say something like 'I think I can be much more valuable for the firm/make a bigger contribution doing (xyz - what you like doing and are good at, and to back it up with reasons that are important for the firm)' Or you could say, 'No thanks, I think XY would be better for this job..' It depends on the relationship with the boss/supervisor too, though..
Unless it's a supported/therapeutic program...? If anyone has any different experience, please do tell-! (I never tried it, I just think employers would expect people to be flexible or give good reasons, maybe with co-workers or people not much higher up, it could go..)
I work on the phone now and its not the people on the phone making me anxious, its the oth 1, 2, or 3 persons in the room. I feel they judge what im saying on the phone so i feel im not giving my best... buy hey at least im doing something!!
Wow, you're brave if you're working on the phones! (In a call center?)
Totally agree about baby steps!! And to split things up... You might want to research how to write good CVs first.. And to research the firm a bit, what they are looking for etc.
I've had jobs in the past and some were pretty stressful and some were okay-ish.. It really depends upon the job and co-workers etc.
I took some time off to do other things inbetween, and yeah, it can be more difficult after a break and stressful to just think about going back.. Wanted to start my own biz/non-profit/go freelancing inbetween, that's not so easy either..
Many of the jobs were easier than nagging parents tho, at least most of the time..
People were often/mostly more friendly than immediate relatives, if that helps?
(At least some people and some things were always allright, and you can focus on those..)
Or find a different job then, and the experience can help..
You can tell yourself you can do anything for 3 months! (at least) That's what I did when the going was tough, hehe.. Volunteering may be a good way to start, yup...
I would also eg read a motivational/inspiring book in the morning, or on the train.. And saving for something you really want can help too!
You can also learn about passive income and how to get it, and maybe start working on that.. (?) Some people have multiple 'moneymakers', not just 'a job' and this can make it easier... (it's good to have some 'start-up' money from a 'job' though..)
And you can also get valuable marketable experience and learn a lot in a job...
Look at it as 'learning stuff & getting paid for it' - maybe that could make it easier?