How are you feeling?

Today is/was the day. My dad has been keeping my mom's dog until she moved somewhere where she could have him. I've been putting it off because I spend more time at my dad's house and I didn't want to be without my doggie. He might literally be my best bud. So I brought him to my mom's new house. It's been interesting. Her new hubby has two male dogs and two cats, one of each gender. I was mostly worried about the cats, but they aren't your typical indoor kind. They have claws and can jump and run and, if Hayden ever gets a hold of one of them, they'll fight back. I'm sure with time he'll come to accept them. The two dogs are just strange. One is a really fat Corgi who was territorial at first, but now seems to know that he is not the top dog. The other is a yippee little Papillon. He barks at Hayden, but then gives up and just leaves. I've had Hay on a lead when he's in the house just in case. If we walk into a room and the Papillon is there, he'll get up and leave. There is a big fenced in back yard for Hayden to roam and he has the whole second level to himself because the cats aren't allowed up there and the dogs are afraid to go up there.

I hope this works out. He is a horribly nervous dog to begin with. I swear he has worse anxiety than I do. And this is the 5000th time we've moved and it always effects him. I don't want him to take over the house and terrorize the other animals, but I want him to feel comfortable and maybe even get along with the other guys. He was able to get along with my grandmother's dog when he lived with her and my sister's cat when he was at my dad's house. I think this can work, but it may take more time that normal because of all the new "roomies."

ETA: Oh yeah, thanks for all the congratulations on the new job. You guys are rad! Big love. <3
 
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marwan kamel

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offffffffff I feel the most depressed in my life :(
yesterday was the graduation party at my college . all people were enjoying their time
and having fun and remembering the good moments in the college.i felt the only one misrable.i just hate my life and wish i was never born.
 

MikeyC

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Sad, worried.
Just saw my ex's truck on the news... looking like a crushed tin can.
Awful. I hope he and you are okay.

That guy sounds like a jerk...I wouldn't let him bother you, Mikey. Your a cool guy and if he doesn't want to talk to you it's his loss if you ask me. If I was there I would have talked to you..Probably more then you would have liked. lol::p:
Honestly, he's actually a nice guy, but the lack of eye contact was upsetting me. I would've loved to have you there to chat to me. :)

I think the pain from my ankle is leaving me a little fractuous.

(God I hope I don't have tendonitis.)
I hope you don't, too.
 

WeirdyMcGee

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I still get email notifications for his car insurance, since It's in my name, still...

can't sleep. I feel horrible.
I've been feeling sick and my stomach was in knots all day long--- guess I know why, now. It's that damn psychic link I have with him!
heh...

idiot. For his parent's sakes, I hope he's okay. ::(:
 

MikeyC

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Sorry to hear you can't sleep. It is definitely affecting you. Is there anyone you can contact that will give you details on his wellbeing?
 

WeirdyMcGee

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Sorry to hear you can't sleep. It is definitely affecting you. Is there anyone you can contact that will give you details on his wellbeing?

As far as I know, his family members changed their numbers at his request so that I couldn't contact them to keep asking for my stuff back.
I'd rather just ignore it but I worry, of course. I feel terrible...
I'll know if he doesn't make it, though. Everyone from our hometown will end up sending me their condolences through facebook, since they all knew us as family for so long.

I got 'condolences' on our cancelled wedding date and when his grandfather passed away, too.

He's not in my life, so I guess it shouldn't affect me but my heart hurts so much right now... I just want it to stop. The tears and worry, to all stop.
 

MikeyC

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As far as I know, his family members changed their numbers at his request so that I couldn't contact them to keep asking for my stuff back.
I'd rather just ignore it but I worry, of course. I feel terrible...
I'll know if he doesn't make it, though. Everyone from our hometown will end up sending me their condolences through facebook, since they all knew us as family for so long.

I got 'condolences' on our cancelled wedding date and when his grandfather passed away, too.

He's not in my life, so I guess it shouldn't affect me but my heart hurts so much right now... I just want it to stop. The tears and worry, to all stop.
It matters not that he's not in your life now, but he was a big part of your life for 8 years and that's nothing to just forget. Even though you've broken up and have gone your separate ways, you don't want him to be hurt, as he probably doesn't want to hear the same about you.

Let's hope those condolence messages don't have to be sent. I wish I had a cure for the worry and the tears but I don't. You strike me as the kind of person that worries a lot, so I hope it's not too intense (even though you've already cried).

Thinking of you, Weirdy.
 

Shyangel

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As far as I know, his family members changed their numbers at his request so that I couldn't contact them to keep asking for my stuff back.
I'd rather just ignore it but I worry, of course. I feel terrible...
I'll know if he doesn't make it, though. Everyone from our hometown will end up sending me their condolences through facebook, since they all knew us as family for so long.

I got 'condolences' on our cancelled wedding date and when his grandfather passed away, too.

He's not in my life, so I guess it shouldn't affect me but my heart hurts so much right now... I just want it to stop. The tears and worry, to all stop.

I'm very sorry, Weirdy...::(: I really feel for you...Breaking up is really painful and takes a long time to recover. Especially if you were engaged, I'm sure. I truly hope he is okay and that you can heal of this soon. I hope you can get some rest.
 

Iluv

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What's wrong?

I've come to realize I am way too impulsive. Friendships I ruined because of it and people I scare. Nobody wants to take a risk and therefore I'm stuck with friends who have moved on and befriended my enemies. Life sucks sometimes ::(:
 

Candide

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I've come to realize I am way too impulsive. Friendships I ruined because of it and people I scare. Nobody wants to take a risk and therefore I'm stuck with friends who have moved on and befriended my enemies. Life sucks sometimes ::(:
I'm too implusive as well and say things I shouldn't say to people and they end up offended if I actually care for them it feels bad.
I think I'm in more danger of the cat eating me hahaha
you must taste like some pretty good salmon.
 

MrJones

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Like I've been really a selfish insensitive fool, and I'm really sorry for the people I've hurt ::(:

I hope I will be forgiven someday, even by me...
 
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