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Dark_Angel

Dark_Angel

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Srijita52 said:
I'm feeling very ugly and worthless, I know I should try harder but ...ugh.
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Hey JiTa ,i have read lot of ur post in which u were helping a lot of ppl being positive , i dont think u r ugly and btw i can see u are a such a nice person inside and u helped a lot even me by reading what u wrote i know its hard sometimes to be positive and try it harder but u have many reasons to dont feel like that =) so stop to feel like that otherwise ill make u try the last thing i ve prepared its kinda a dessert but idk if is eatable lolz xD but at least i didnt fire the house and its already a good sign =P
 
Srijita52

Srijita52

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MikeyC said:
You are certainly not ugly or worthless! What's making you feel this way?
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A lot of things really, but thanks Mikey. I hope you're doing well :)
Dark_Angel said:
Hey JiTa ,i have read lot of ur post in which u were helping a lot of ppl being positive , i dont think u r ugly and btw i can see u are a such a nice person inside and u helped a lot even me by reading what u wrote i know its hard sometimes to be positive and try it harder but u have many reasons to dont feel like that =) so stop to feel like that otherwise ill make u try the last thing i ve prepared its kinda a dessert but idk if is eatable lolz xD but at least i didnt fire the house and its already a good sign =P
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Thanks Dark angel, you made me feel a lot better. Lol I'm terrible at making food too. I'm sure I'll definitely put my house on fire if I even try so I can say you're lot better than me, at least you're giving it a try :p
 
Dark_Angel

Dark_Angel

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Srijita52 said:
A lot of things really, but thanks Mikey. I hope you're doing well :)

Thanks Dark angel, you made me feel a lot better. Lol I'm terrible at making food too. I'm sure I'll definitely put my house on fire if I even try so I can say you're lot better than me, at least you're giving it a try :p
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well i didnt put of fire my house just because before start cooking i ve called the firefighters =P otherwise u would have watch in the breaknews a house fired by an experiment dessert xD as present for next xmas ill ask to santa claus an extinguisher so the firefighters wont look me bad while im cooking xD anyways if there is something that u r feeling wrong just know that as u helped many ppl we can try to help u too =) and well if u will need to chat (and why not eat a almost burned dessert lolz jk) just tell and ill listen and try to help ^^
 
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Vampayah88

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Anxious, worried, depressed. Yesterday i found out i was voted to be the fvcking senator student of our faculty, me and 4 other students. Nobody even asked me if i wanted to be nominated. All i wanna do now is get out of it and for some1 who actually wants this to come in my place. I dont wanna go to meetings, have to organize activities, be forced to communicate a lot, involve myself in everyting and god knows what else. This is way too much pressure for a person with sa.I'm freaking crying right now
 
DeadmanWalking

DeadmanWalking

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Vamp said:
Anxious, worried, depressed. Yesterday i found out i was voted to be the fvcking senator student of our faculty, me and 4 other students. Nobody even asked me if i wanted to be nominated. All i wanna do now is get out of it and for some1 who actually wants this to come in my place. I dont wanna go to meetings, have to organize activities, be forced to communicate a lot, involve myself in everyting and god knows what else. This is way too much pressure for a person with sa.I'm freaking crying right now
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Congratulations!..... or maybe not. Anyway, hey, calm down, please. I hate it when people cry; it makes me feel sad. I want everyone to smile, so, please, could you smile for me? This can still be remedied. Go to one of your teachers and see if you can back out. But, give it a try first. I was voted to be a peer mediator of my class, of which there were only two openings, and to be in a club for outstanding students. They both called on me to be extremely social, to be able to speak with people with no problem or "choppiness". I freaked out like you are right now. But, it was because of that I found my future dream profession. So, can I ask you to just try it out for one day and see how it goes? If you don't like it, then quit. But, if you were voted to a position of that much importance, then people believe that you're capable of the job, SA or no, and have a very high view of you:). But, first, see if you can back out.
 
DeadmanWalking

DeadmanWalking

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april88 said:
Heartbroken and it hurts so much :(
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Hey, I'm sorry about that. Is there anything you enjoy doing? Just for today, or just like in the near future, dedicate that day to doing whatever it is you like. You need some happiness right now, go get it. It'll be alright. You'll find someone who will appreciate you and love you and treat you the way you want to be:). Give him time and he will appear. Until then, work on improving yourself and making yourself happy.
 
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Vampayah88

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DeadmanWalking said:
Congratulations!..... or maybe not. Anyway, hey, calm down, please. I hate it when people cry; it makes me feel sad. I want everyone to smile, so, please, could you smile for me? This can still be remedied. Go to one of your teachers and see if you can back out. But, give it a try first. I was voted to be a peer mediator of my class, of which there were only two openings, and to be in a club for outstanding students. They both called on me to be extremely social, to be able to speak with people with no problem or "choppiness". I freaked out like you are right now. But, it was because of that I found my future dream profession. So, can I ask you to just try it out for one day and see how it goes? If you don't like it, then quit. But, if you were voted to a position of that much importance, then people believe that you're capable of the job, SA or no, and have a very high view of you:). But, first, see if you can back out.
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It's really great that u found ur dream profession through that, I wish i could be more optimistic but...I just feel like it's been put a HUGE weight on my shoulders, heavier than I could possibly carry, and it's all i can think about now, it stresses me to the point that i can't even work anymore or sleep. If i back out and someone takes my place,ppl, well especially my mom, says i'll regret it and miss a big opportunity. Plus im scared my teachers will be angry and tell me im stupid for giving it up. I was only chosen because i have big grades and attend classes, they didnt bother to ask me if i even want this position. Im not a good talker, dont give my opinion much, im not good for this. I just want to be freaking left alone.
 
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DeadmanWalking

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Vamp said:
It's really great that u found ur dream profession through that, I wish i could be more optimistic but...I just feel like it's been put a HUGE weight on my shoulder, heavier than I could possibly carry, and it's all i can think about now, it stresses me to the point that i can't even work anymore or sleep. If i back out and someone takes my place ppl, well especially my mom, says i'll regret it and miss a big opportunity. Plus im scared my teachers will be angry and tell me im stupid for giving it up. I was only chosen because i have big grades and attend classes, they didnt bother to ask me if i even want this position. Im not a good talker, dont give my opinion much, im not good for this. I just want to be freaking left alone.
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If you truly don't think that you can do it, then go and ask to withdraw. If your mother gets on you about it, then tell her that this is your choice. Tell her that you know what you're capable of and that they job called for abilities that you lack at the moment. There are multiple ways and opportunities to succeed that you'll find in life; don't think that this is the only one. If your teachers have a problem with it, then tell them the same thing. You aren't stupid for wanting to quit; you just don't think, or know, that you can't do it and you want someone on the team that can. After that, then whatever everyone else has to say about your quitting can be forgotten if it's just them yelling at you. If we're being honest with each other, I'd want you to stay in there too just to try it, but I also want you to be happy and comfortable in school. Do whatever you feel is right:).
 
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Vampayah88

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DeadmanWalking said:
If you truly don't think that you can do it, then go and ask to withdraw. If your mother gets on you about it, then tell her that this is your choice. Tell her that you know what you're capable of and that they job called for abilities that you lack at the moment. There are multiple ways and opportunities to succeed that you'll find in life; don't think that this is the only one. If your teachers have a problem with it, then tell them the same thing. You aren't stupid for wanting to quit; you just don't think, or know, that you can't do it and you want someone on the team that can. After that, then whatever everyone else has to say about your quitting can be forgotten if it's just them yelling at you. If we're being honest with each other, I'd want you to stay in there too just to try it, but I also want you to be happy and comfortable in school. Do whatever you feel is right:).
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Thank u for your kind words DeadmanWalking. I really needed them.:) I'll talk to my teachers in the next couple of days and see what I'll do and what im getting myself into if I'll actually do this.
 
ilovenoodles

ilovenoodles

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I feel good now, today was a great day.
I got asked once again to go out with co-workers and i said yes this time, why not:)
Work itself was also relaxing today. I could even hold on to a conversation with the girl i was working with. We talked about everything, not only shared interests:p
Unfortunately, i still had those SA moments.
Other then that there was lots of action at work.
 
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