this_portrait
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I'm still cold from being outside, and I have to go back out there again in a little bit. I'm not even completely warmed up.
How are you feeling?
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.....And my hopes for the human race get dashed a bit more by the day::. I've never heard of anyone bullying a person for something as minor as that.
Well, that aside, did you make sure to tell them off? You don't have to do anything anyone tells you to do; if you didn't want to go, then that's no one else's business but yours. Please try to forget that it ever happened and replace those memories with some good ones, okay?
The bullying was the reason i didn't go.
It's warmed up a little bit down here. I don't know how it works up there by the lakes, though. I took my dog for a walk this morning at 9AM and I couldn't feel my face when I got home.
All the more reason not to go. Good for you. Did you explain to them why you didn't want to go?
I cannot stand bullying. There are so many ways to tear a person down (physically, mentally, verbally, spiritually). I've said my fair share of mean things, but I have never singled someone or some group out because of something I don't like about them. And I can't understand how someone could. They are either severely disturbed or insecure about themselves or lacking a heart. I remember seeing kids getting bullied in high school and I wish now that I had done something about it then, but I was too afraid. I got picked on occasionally, but nowhere near as bad as some of these kids. And even the name calling that I got has stuck with me for the rest of my life. It's truly awful. I don't tolerate it anymore.... and now I'm just ranting. Sorry! :
:I feel good. (na na na na na na na) Like I knew that I would, now. (na na na na na na na)
All the more reason not to go. Good for you. Did you explain to them why you didn't want to go?
I cannot stand bullying. There are so many ways to tear a person down (physically, mentally, verbally, spiritually). I've said my fair share of mean things, but I have never singled someone or some group out because of something I don't like about them. And I can't understand how someone could. They are either severely disturbed or insecure about themselves or lacking a heart. I remember seeing kids getting bullied in high school and I wish now that I had done something about it then, but I was too afraid. I got picked on occasionally, but nowhere near as bad as some of these kids. And even the name calling that I got has stuck with me for the rest of my life. It's truly awful. I don't tolerate it anymore.... and now I'm just ranting. Sorry! :
I feel good. (na na na na na na na) Like I knew that I would, now. (na na na na na na na)
That's exactly how i feel about it too! now i'm thinking about it. Or to stand up for yourself. I'm glad i didn't go but i feel sorry for my family too. I told my mom about it but yeah... she ignores it. I don't tolerate things like this anymore either....
Invisibleman
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I honestly feel like even this forum is becoming more and more like my real life. I honestly sit here and have nothing to say,I used to post on here daily now its like once every 3 days.
I think that's a bit natural. It may not seem like it, but I don't post on here nearly as much as I used to. And when I do, it's just to post my favorite songs for something I like in pictures alphabetically.
I think that's a bit natural. It may not seem like it, but I don't post on here nearly as much as I used to. And when I do, it's just to post my favorite songs for something I like in pictures alphabetically.
... Or to disagree with me about something.
LifeInternal88
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Plus in the beginning there's that excitement of having something new.
And that feeling of relief; like 'hooray, there are others out there'., and you just wanna get everything out all at once!
So, I think it is normal too
Nuh uh! Cry baby!
MikeyC
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Lacking a heart is basically how it is, I reckon. The people that bullied me didn't care how it affected me, as long as it made them feel better. Little do they know how it has really affected me.
However, teenage hormones raging and firing on all cylinders doesn't quite help. I can't imagine those same people would bully me these days, as everyone has grown up (I would like to think).
Phoenixx
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Lonely. These past couple days I've been craving for social interaction. I actually just got done hanging out with my brother for the day. For the last three months he's been putting up with having to take me to and from college and even come deliver stuff for me. So today since he was coming down (yet again), I decided to take him out to lunch. He deserves it. I had a good time, and actually made my own order today without stumbling over a single word or getting all embarrassed. (Phoenixx = 1; Anxiety = 0 ) My brother and I can actually be decent human beings to each other once in a while, and have a nice, ridiculous, and funny conversation without leading to an argument. It's just rare.
) My brother and I can actually be decent human beings to each other once in a while, and have a nice, ridiculous, and funny conversation without leading to an argument. It's just rare.
MikeyC
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Sorry you're feeling lonely, Phoenixx, but that's awesome that you and your brother managed to act normal without the fighting. It does make the relationship that much better when you know you can act civil towards each other, even if that is not often.Lonely. These past couple days I've been craving for social interaction. I actually just got done hanging out with my brother for the day. For the last three months he's been putting up with having to take me to and from college and even come deliver stuff for me. So today since he was coming down (yet again), I decided to take him out to lunch. He deserves it. I had a good time, and actually made my own order today without stumbling over a single word or getting all embarrassed. (Phoenixx = 1; Anxiety = 0
If I was there, Phoenixx, I would hang out with you.
The relationship between me and my brother is slowly deteriorating. We never fight ever, but he has a girlfriend of 4+ years and he's doing a course, so he's studying a lot, so he has very little time for me now. It's his birthday on Friday so I'll try to take him out for lunch.
Phoenixx
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^ Yeah I could totally use someone to hang out with right now. I do have to study, but that's really less important to me at the moment. Don't worry, I'll be kicking myself later.
Good idea to take your brother out for his birthday. Sounds like he could use the break.
MikeyC
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It's too bad I'm not there, then. If you feel like you want to be social, you very much should! Go out and have some fun.^ Yeah I could totally use someone to hang out with right now. I do have to study, but that's really less important to me at the moment. Don't worry, I'll be kicking myself later.
Good idea to take your brother out for his birthday. Sounds like he could use the break.
I think my brother feeds off studying, to be honest. He seems to enjoy it, or he doesn't complain much. Maybe the break from studying won't help him at all! I'm just wondering if he'll actually want to hang out with me, though. I'll find out on Friday.
Lucy:)
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Feeling pretty down. I haven't been on here in a while, I figured I was getting better! But I'm just feeling pretty lonely, since leaving college I have lost touch with all my friends, they all have their groups they have gone off too and I've unintentionally just ended up on my own. Its a tough situation because I want them to invite me out but if they did I wouldn't go because I couldn't take the socializing :/
So I've apparently not got as far as I thought!
So I've apparently not got as far as I thought!
MikeyC
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Hi Lucy. If they do invite you out, you should muster up the courage to be social with them. It does seem like you miss them so you'll probably have more fun than you think you will.
I don't think you're pathetic, phocas. I do hope you have some fun during your holidays, though. Sounds like it's been a tough year and you could use a nice break from everything. What plans do you have for the holidays?
DeadmanWalking
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What's got ya nervous? Are you about to go out into some public event or something?
Yessss. My bf's company's christmas party. We are driving separately so I can skip out early though. :
: I have a good excuse because I have to get up early to go to work.The only good thing is, I got to get dressed up for it.
My hands are shaking!